I had many feelings upon watching this movie. First, from reading other IMDB member descriptions of the film, I had expected something totally unwatchable and boring. However, that was not really the case for me. I thought The Center of the World was well-acted; I felt empathy for the two main characters, Richard and Florence. I thought most of the dialogue was written thoughtfully and realistically. In terms of cinematography, the hand-held camera thing worked well for most of the film, but there were times it did get a bit tiresome too. Also, for a film where nothing much really happens, The Center of the World didn't seem overlong to me. Overall, I would say this movie kept me semi-engaged and interested.
But it also bothered me. What punched my buttons? First, I had a really hard time believing that the characters of Richard and Florence, who are portrayed as very emotionally literate people, would ever get involved in such a vacuous and emotionally unsatisfying situation. Perhaps Wayne Wang, Miranda July, and the other writers of this film's script knew people involved in a similar "relationship" as Richard and Florence. But I don't see pornography/strip clubs/stranger sex/etc. in such a clean light. As I see it, a great many people involved in these activities are doing so because of terribly painful childhood wounds (i.e. sexual abuse, huge abandonment issues, family shaming)and to portray, nay, to glorify Richard and Florence's characters in such a "clean erotic" way misrepresents to the reality of the strip/porn world. My concern here is that portrayals like this incorrectly glorify something that is really ugly. Having taught high school for three years and knowing how films such as this distort teenagers' perceptions of reality, I can just hear my fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen year old students talking about how "cool" this film is, how like "real life" Richard and Florence are. And then I can see them wanting to go out there and be like Richard and Florence. "Oh, cool, dude, let's get a striper and go to Vegas." Yeah, cool. So, anyway, I was disturbed by this aspect of the film.
Another thing that really punched my buttons related to the portrayal of men's/women's gender roles in the film. There is much destructiveness, ugliness, and violence in this movie related to how men and women are represented. Under everything in this film lies the old steretypes that men basically buy women for sex. I think this is a very dangerous and violent way to portray male-female relationships, even if Wang was trying to do it in a tongue in cheek or not so serious way. The two scenes that really disturbed me the most with respect to this issue were the one where Mel Gorham's character, Roxanne, came to the hotel room and the scene near the end of the film where Richard and Florence interact more "intimately." Without giving away the plot, I just thought the whole scene with Roxanne and Florence reeked of male hatred. Was this the purpose of that scene? And after Florence and Richard's final night in the hotel, I felt truly sorry for Richard's character. What's gives with Florence's character? Is she supposed to be behaving cruelly just for fun? Why did she have to "play by the rules", as she always said? In light of her apparent emotional literacy, it seems highly unlikely to me she would behave in this way (unless she had some very serious issues with men).
A last criticism: The title of the film doesn't really work for me. It seems too significant, too grandiose for the way the film is made. And that makes me realize that although the I find the characters and dialogue in the film interesting, there's something not well-thought- out, something sloppy about the whole thing. The Center of the World just seems really pointless and silly at the end. So I don't know what an appropriate title would be.
Anyway, that' my two cents worth.