Boring, overrated, vulgar, spared by a few magnificent actors Isn't it funny how most user reviews seem to entirely miss the point (and the tone) of this movie? While I might criticise the world it portrays, so does Crazy Rich Asians. There is no endorsement here of the vulgar displays of wealth, of the abhorrent behaviour of various characters. In fact, throughout, major plot points are illustrations that the film is criticising the culture of gold-digging and ridiculing the assumptions by various villains that the lead character has anything to do with their game. Scorn! Scorn for the tone deaf and borderline-illiterate audience who completely misunderstood what the plot is about. Shame! A shame that they were the target audience for what is a very simple, mundane romcom extolling the virtues of a fantastical & basic romance based on some indefinable love maintained by two one-dimensional characters against all the odds (avaricious competitors maligning the girl, steely villainous relatives culturally at war with this Westerner, etc.).
Above par for a plodding generic rom-com, which doesn't elaborate beyond the most basic of beats - style and setting elevate it beyond its parts - but as a story there is nothing unexpected. Strictly for those who want what that genre average delivers.
Performances - Michelle Yeoh transcends the material and her multi-faceted mother must be a construction of her own talent and craft, because the script and the direction offer no help whatsoever - Constance Wu is compelling, and sure as hell works hard to remain likeable despite her clunky dialogue and humourless jokes - Awkwafina is highly entertaining and manages to draw a characterless role in at least one fabulous dimension - same goes for Nico Santos.
Some might feel the film avoids revelling in gratuitous wealth, but to me, while it retains an otherworldly character, the portrayal of wealth is definitely pornographic.
Henry Golding can be forgiven for his wooden performance given that the character of Nick is the most anodyne Etonian old boy ("the best beer of my life, mate... would be perfect with a spot of rugby, what?"; excuse me while I empty my stomach) whose duality runs only as deep as his inability to forsee the entire plot of the film, spawned by the idiotic decision to keep everything about himself hidden from the woman he purports to love and truly wish to marry. These two leads seem to know nothing about one another, their feelings for one another seem to derive purely from aesthetics (shirt off, glasses on, suit on, dress on; look how she fits in so well; look how he plays vaguely well with kids) and therefore the entire setup for the film is implausible.
Nick is a twelve year old's notion of the eligible bachelor. Rachel (Wu) is a twelve year old's notion of the female protagonist - a good role model, the Mickey Mouse version of an economics professor, who falls head over heels for the first hunk she meets without batting an eyelid that he says nothing of his entire history before college. These kids have the sophistication and emotional range of ... a twelve year old. Yet they are adults in a problematic adult situation - and so I don't believe in the fiction. We watch two actors struggle with terrible dialogue, not two characters with fates we give two figs about.
Social politics - note the line about how the Yeung (Young?) family came as first generation Chinese settlers to Singapore - how their capital raised the city out of the swamp. Ignoring the fact that foreign settlement of traders in the area predates the proposed timeline, what sticks in the throat about this fact being casually thrown away as explication of the prestige accorded that affluent family, is the fact that their ancestors would have multiplied their fortunes by driving indentured (slave) labour into the mud of that swamp - the same people who are now employed in the background throughout this film as household help. We do absolutely revel in the glory of immense wealth as sprayed across hillsides and freeways across Asia (certainly after the Western fashion, but with a particularly eastern status-materialist flavour), and at no point do we find straying into shot the unliveable yet unaffordable sweltering tower block housing for the workers at the bottom of the Yeung (Young?) pyramid.
This is not a film concerned by social or economic politics - and therefore implicitly it is a film concerned about helping us to ignore these things.
But, instead, it's a film about the challenges of negotiating a relationship with the prospective mother in law, and broader integrations into a partner's family. On that front, it does justice to the theme as much as can be achieved in this running time. Even if it plays out in the context of an entirely implausible relationship, completely lacking in substance and at no point justifying the overwhelming effort these characters put into making it work.
The story does manage to neatly tie up the conflict between western individualism and trends toward broadening opportunities and empowerment of women versus traditional family roles, values and self sacrifice to traditional power structures and greater goods that are implied to be the preserve of eastern cultures - in the final interactions between Yeoh and Wu. It was pleasing to see that there was no total resolution, as the mother in law disappears from the final party scene having conceded defeat. It was most displeasing to see that all the progress made by Rachel in maintaining self respect, dignity and autonomy, is jacked in because a plummy marionette delivers a boring, hollow and unfunny proposal to her on a plane, presents her with a massive sparkly stone and somehow this intelligent woman is overcome with the ROMANCE of it all. But at least we can rest easy in the knowledge that neither of them will be happy because of the impossible compromises required of them by this flippant decision. (Hey, who knows - certainly not them, they know nothing of one another - maybe they might be able to make it work).
There are many attractive people in this film, which I suppose is another plus. Bravo. Didn't stop their jokes from making my skin crawl (up from the seat, and straight out of the theatre).