Y'all are crazy. This is great. Seriously. The Humor is perfect. If you don't laugh, then you don't have THAT kind of sense of humor. And maybe you should look into that, Susan..
The stereotypes are acknowledged, but not shoved down your throat. The cultural differences are played up a little, but... well... that is what happens. Gay culture and straight white culture don't perfectly intersect. And then you add in baby boomer parents? I mean, c'mon. This is all realistic. What I love that no one is talking about is that here is a gay romantic lead who has a loving family who adores him and completely accepts him. THAT is not commonly seen on tv. That is part of progress. Yes, we show what LGTBQI people go through with their families. But we also show a family who 100% gets it and loves their kid. Their only complaint is that he's not married. That's... nice.
This is a perfect Xmas romantic holiday movie. Just the right about of cheese and wholesomeness while still giving you that happy ending you wanted.