When ABC show Modern Family first hit screens in 2009, it quickly became one of TV’s most beloved sitcoms, thanks to its progressive takes and hilarious characters. At the center of the comedy was Phil Dunphy, the goofy, lovable father. One of the running gags throughout the series was his infatuation with his stepmother-in-law, Gloria Pritchett.

Phil’s constant, often cringeworthy admiration for Gloria was meant to be funny. But looking back, it’s hard to ignore the fact that if Claire Dunphy had behaved the same way, the fanbase would have been quick to turn on her.

Julie Bowen as Claire Dunphy in Modern Family | Credits: ABC Network Phil had a constant crush on Gloria, but Modern Family fans wouldn’t have tolerated it if Claire did the same

In Modern Family, Phil’s (Ty Burrell) harmless often cringeworthy crush on Gloria was played for laughs, with the family...