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  • bkoganbing12 September 2014
    Some sincere performances by the cast characterize My Son My Son about the doings of a young cad and how he affects the lives of all around him. The title role here is played in adulthood by Louis Hayward who while pretty much forgotten today was a fine player and equally capable of playing heroes as in The Return Of Monte Cristo, villainous cads as in this film or both sides of the coin as in The Man In The Iron Mask.

    Brian Aherne plays his long suffering father who realizes he's spawned a completely selfish cad in his desire to provide the best of everything for his son. Aherne and best friend Henry Hull are a pair of poor Irishmen who are determined to better themselves. Hull becomes a rich designer of furniture and Aherne a celebrated author. Both marry and have children, Aherne his one and only son and a boy and a girl for Hull.

    Early on Hayward while still a child and played by Scotty Beckett is discovered to be charming but bad. His mother Josephine Hutchinson wants to discipline him severely, but she dies early and Aherne spoils him rotten.

    Hayward ruins the lives of all around him, but in the end redeems himself somewhat so that Aherne can be proud of him. For how Hayward ruins and redeems you see the film for.

    Madeline Carroll is also in the film as Aherne's second wife who Hayward makes a play for. Hull's grownup children are played by Bruce Lester and Laraine Day and both are touched negatively by Hayward.

    Aherne maybe next to David Niven was the actor who was cast in roles that required charm and little else to carry a film. He never became as big a star as Niven among other of his contemporaries, but was on occasion called on to do more than be charming as in the case of My Son My Son. In this as in Smiling Through Aherne has to age many years and with the help of good makeup does so gracefully.

    My Son My Son got an Oscar nomination for Art Direction for and black and white motion picture. Dated severely it still is a credit to the cast and crew who made it.
  • Brian Aherne stars in "My Son, My Son," the son being Louis Hayward in this 1940 film. Madeline Carroll, Laraine Day, Henry Hull, and Josephine Hutchinson also star in this saga that spans 20+ years. William Essex is an ambitious young man, determined to get out of the slums. He winds up helping a sick man and his daughter (Hutchinson) by delivering bread to their customers. After the man's death, he marries the daughter, a stern religious woman. Together they have a son, Oliver. William has a blind spot when it comes to the boy and is overly indulgent, even when it becomes evident that the kid is a manipulative cheat and liar. William is eventually widowed and reconnects with an artist, Livia (Carroll), whom he met while doing research for a novel in the mines. Unfortunately Oliver is in love with her as well and considers this a big competition, although Livia is not in love with him. His behavior nearly drives Livia away.

    Oliver then has his way with a childhood friend, now an actress currently starring in William's play - and the daughter of William's best friend. By the time Oliver goes to serve in World War I, he has cut a wide path of destruction.

    "My Son, My Son" makes for an okay movie but has a very disappointing performance by Brian Aherne. Aherne, who by this time had been overshadowed by Errol Flynn, was capable of much better as he showed in "Merrily We Live" and other films. He was an accomplished stage actor as well. However, he did not seem very committed to this material. In a way, I don't blame him. The character comes across like an idiot letting this brat get away with what he did.

    The rest of the performances are very good, particularly from Hayward, who did this smooth con man type of character very well. Carroll is luminous as a woman desperately in love with William but frightened of what Oliver might do next. Laraine Day is lovely as Maeve, who harbors a secret love for William and whose life takes on tragic proportions.

    "My Son, My Son" is nowhere near as horrible as one of the reviews indicates (in my opinion) but it isn't great. It seems to have a tacked-on Hollywood ending as well.
  • Warning: Spoilers
    For almost two hours, BRIAN AHERNE suffers nobly as a man whose only son is a rotten, spoiled liar and scoundrel (LOUIS HAYWARD). He plays the man in a rather naive, prissy and Victorian way who always means to punish his son for his indiscretions but is quickly convinced by his charming no good son that he's completely innocent and his motives have been misunderstood.

    Hayward plays the wayward son with a winning smile and open-eyed look that is supposed to deceive everyone but the two women who seem to know him for what he is--MADELEINE CARROLL (looking elegantly beautiful, a vision of blonde loveliness) and pert looking LARAINE DAY as a young actress compromised by him and secretly in love with his father. By the time she commits suicide, the story has reached the apex of its tear-jerker status. The story, instead, concludes with the son being awarded the Victorian Cross for his bravery in battle (World War I), and Aherne is happy that his son died a hero.

    It's a story of unrequited love and tries for a bittersweet effect, but misses the mark along the way. Aherne is just too maddeningly naive and Hayward too obviously deceitful for the story to make sense. It's further hurt by the happy ending that seems to have been tacked on, it's so untrue to the characters. I understand that in the novel, the young man's character was not redeemed and he died on the gallows.

    On the technical side, the Art Direction won an Oscar nomination and the B&W photography by Harry Stradling, Jr. is very effective.

    Trivia note: Why did Hollywood casting directors make such obvious mistakes when selecting children who turn into adults? I mean how does cherubic SCOTTY BECKETT (much too sweet looking here) turn into LOUIS HAYWARD as an adult? No way this could have happened!! You might as well have Mickey Rooney turn into Tyrone Power.
  • I gave this a "7" mainly on the strength of Louis Hayward's performance. I did not catch the beginning credits and so spent the whole picture wondering who young Essex was. I thought it was a young Dirk Bogarde! As noted before, Laraine Day (again a surprise) was miscast, although very pretty indeed. here she was an English girl, daughter of Irish parents, yet with an American accent. Day had a busy year in '40, having a leading lady role in "foreign correspondent". henry hull, as her father, was quite recognizable. Surprisingly, I thought the normally beauteous Madeline Carroll was a bit heavy, and older looking. well, her role did call for her to be a more mature woman, both as a counter-point to young Essex and mature for the older Essex. I don't know anyone who could be more fitting as the young rotter Essex, with Hayward's patented smirk and sarcastic voice. Brent was a study in naivete and at times seemed a bit bewildered how he should act in certain scenes. the movie must have been hard for the Brits to be really interested, what with WW11 already started and this movie's time period being up to and during WW1. Perhaps its production started before sept. '39.
  • Warning: Spoilers
    Howard Spring was a best selling Welsh novelist who after a variety of jobs found his metier as a journalist, then as a children's novelist where he was a runner up for the prestigious Carnegie Medal. "My Son, My Son" was his first book for adults and producer Edward Small bought the rights for $50,000, thinking the role of the wastrel son would be perfect for his new discovery Louis Hayward. And he was excellent as the carefree Oliver but Scotty Beckett who played Oliver as a child gave the role a psychological nastiness and the promise of horrible things to come. When Hayward came into the movie, it seemed to go into the "two men in love with the same girl" plotline - and then there's Laraine Day, very pretty but playing her part with a ghastly Irish brogue - when she remembers. Initially she is "unsubtle" but her performance improves as the movie goes on. She plays the star struck and love struck daughter of Aherne's best friend (Henry Hull) but unlike Oliver, takes Aherne's love of artist Livy (Madeleine Carroll) in a mature way.

    This is a pretty lengthy (too long) saga of children gone wrong. Brian Aherne who seems to spark in the earlier scenes really does get such a defeated stance in the latter part it's hard to believe what Livy sees in him. He plays budding writer William Essex who through a series of good deeds finds himself married to dour and cold Josephine Hutchinson - one thing she is right about, she can see bad things in store for their son. Oliver who steals and cheats and has a most unappealing look (I know Scotty Beckett is a little cutie but he has the most awful smirk). Of course father is blind to giving him any type of reprimand, even when Oliver turns on him after father has tried to interfere with mother giving the boy a thrashing - that should have set off alarm bells but no!!

    Louis Hayward gives a terrific performance as the adult Oliver but things begin to get soapy when Oliver brings Livy to a party and Livy sees in William the unknown man who had stolen her heart a year before (Hutchinson has conveniently died). Tensions run high as Oliver does not take too kindly to having something or someone taken from him.

    Louis Hayward and Madeleine Carroll are the only people who shine in this plot heavy movie. Bathos takes over as Oliver goes to war leaving a pregnant Maeve (Day) with suicidal feelings. The heavy handed patriotic ending with it's "the clouds will part and the sun will shine again" seems to have been an after thought!!
  • As Brian Aherne so eloquently states, there are tons of poems and stories dedicated to the virtues of motherhood, but hardly anyone talks about the transition from husband to father. This entertaining drama shows how fatherhood changes a man. Brian starts the film as a young man with dreams, plans, and ambition. His good friend, Henry Hull, doesn't make as many plans, figuring that life will take him along for the ride and it's enough of a struggle to keep up. The two pals become family men; Brian gets a son and Henry gets a daughter. As the years pass, we get to see how both fathers (but Brian in particular) treat their children.

    Henry tries to raise Laraine Day up into a respectable lady, but Brian is far too indulgent with Louis Hayward. He caters to his every whim, lies to cover up his messes, and fails to teach him discipline. When will enough ever be enough? You'll have to watch this heavy drama to find out. I recommend it, even though parts are upsetting, because the story is timeless and the acting is very good. Just be prepared to hate Louis Hayward; he plays a very convincing villain.
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    On the surface, the character of spoiled Louis Hayward doesn't at all seem rotten. He's funny and charming, but secretly manipulative and self-destructive. He's even seemingly accepting of the fact that the woman he loves (Madeline Carroll) is really in love with dad Brian Aherne.

    There must have been a major edit as after his wife Josephine Hutchinson is killed, Aherne isn't even told so the audience is supposed to assume that this happened off screen. A disciplinarian unlike her husband, Hutchinson is the only one aware that her son (played by Scotty Beck as a youngster) is no good, a bad seed.

    This is one of those A films (directed by Charles Vidor) that was quickly forgotten, good but not as great as the filmmakers hoped it would be. It's based on a now forgotten novel by Howard Spring, making his hero (Aherne) an author as well, influenced by good seed daughter Sophie Stewart into turning his novel into a play which becomes a big hit.

    The highlight of the drama is Aherne realizing too late how rotten his son is, and how his naive spoiling contributed to Hayward's downfall. Aherne gives up his happiness with Carroll to take care of Laraine Day, the star of the play whom Hayward leaves high and dry, and pregnant. Superb acting (particularly by Aherne and Hayward) and great production design are highlights. This may not be one of 1940's great classics (too many to count), but I wouldn't dismiss it either. It's just further down the list on that year's most memorable films.
  • A delightfully old-fashioned melodrama in the grand tradition of John M Stahl (whose films were sometimes remade in color by Douglas Sirk ),Irving Rapper or Edmund Goulding.

    Even though it was given the full -bore melodrama treatment ,both characters (the father and the son) still exist today and one has certainly met some of them in one's lifetime ; the father who got a raw deal when he was young and who wants his offspring to enjoy all that life offers : the scene of the book is revealing and shows how dad can be blind (or rather pretends to be blind ).

    William(Bruce Aherne) is prey to a monstruous love for a son , a not-so-magnificent obsession; Charles Vidor had filmed the opposite in his memorable "double door" :a woman who had made her nephew a waverer and whose hate for her daughter-in-law knew no bound.

    William's mindless adoration for an ungrateful mischievous son is as destructive as Mary Morris ' hate for her family . The grown- up son will never take no for an answer and he won't be satisfied till he owns everything;under a handsome but sarcastic smile , Oliver (Louis Hayward is ideally cast here) hides a black soul, a man whose pleasure is to treat the others as puppets he pulls the strings of, deaf to their pain .

    Great scenes: the railway station where a symbolic gate separates the father and the son busy wooing a girl on the platform ; the officers' meal when the father has finally understood and Rory's (the virtuous gent) arrival.

    In fact,William discovers he's as guilty as his son ; his wife had already tried to rectify her son's behavior :but as a rather holier-than-thou woman , she had no real hold on them ;besides ,when she gets run over by a car, nobody sheds a tear and her husband hints at her only once, fleetingly ,afterward .The character ,with whom William was never really in love with ,is not developed enough,and it's the main flaw of the movie .When a new woman ;Livia,appears (Laraine Day),Oliver cannot consider her a stepmother and a ruthless competition begins, but as for the new flame, it's a one-way love (or so called love).

    Like father,like son.
  • We have often seen in films the self-sacrificing mother and the negative effects it has had on children. This 1940 film deals with a father, who attains wealth as a writer, and has a son that he spoils rotten so that the latter can have everything in life that he didn't. Naturally, tragedy results from all this.

    Our father is played wonderfully and Louis Hayward, as the son, is excellent as well as the son who ruins the life of so many.

    Ironically, it is the mother here, a religious woman, who sees from the beginning that there is a need to discipline the boy. The father can't do this and the two argue only to show that their marriage has been a failure.

    When dad meets Madeleine Carroll, his wife is conveniently killed by being run-over. Ironically, this occurs on her way home from church. The son has also met Carroll and when he learns that his father loves her, he plots to destroy their liaison.

    The father's friend also marries and has two wonderful children. The daughter grows up to become a famous actress and is indebted to the father for writing her plays. The actress is Lorraine Day,and she is miscast in this film. When he can not have Ms. Carroll, Hayward turns to her and when she finds herself in trouble, the father offers to marry her as the son rejects her. Day takes her life tragically.

    World War 1 in England intervenes and the son, seeing his father's devotion, becomes a hero but it is too late.

    An absorbing film dealing with the loving relationship between father and son. It should not be missed.
  • CinemaSerf14 February 2023
    "William" (Brian Aherne) is the working man made good and is determined to see that his young son has all of the things that he didn't have growing up. The best of clothes, housing, eduction - and it all creates the rather miscreant creature that is "Oliver" (initially played well as a rather odious child by Scotty Beckett, then by Louis Hayward). He values nothing, takes for granted everything he has and gradually, as he gets older, hurts and alienates just about everyone. The only people who seem to be able to see through his façade, and who care enough to try and help are "Livia" (Madeleine Carroll) and the flighty, love-struck, young "Maeve" (Laraine Day) but will it all be too little too late for this increasingly self-destructive fellow? The story is interesting and illustrates the dangers of spoiling a child, but somehow the character of the father is just too soft. Too trusting and forgiving. This is a man who came up the hard way and though clearly he wants better for his child, his character is so weak as to frequently come across as implausible. The one staple in all of this is the friendship between "William" and his lifelong friend "Dermot" (Henry Hull) which becomes more important as the penny drops that young "Oliver" looks like a lost cause. There's no stopping cringing every time "Day" breaks into her Irish scent - it could strip paint, and as the story lumbers on I felt it all dragged down in a wordy dialogue and a paucity of pace or development. Like it's stuck in treacle, it seems to lose it's way until we are rescued by the War. Hayward is good, the story is solid - but the film struggles.
  • The plot for "My Son, My Son!" is very similar to one of Spencer Tracy's best and most underrated films, "Edward, My Son". Both are about self-made men who make the mistake of spoiling their sons...and ultimately pay the price when the boy grows into a self-destructive sociopath. I recommend both...though the Tracy one is the better of the two films.

    Brian Ahern plays William Essex, a guy who comes from humble origins but who strives to work his way up out of the streets. Instead of following in his family's footsteps, he becomes a successful writer and his future appears grand. Along the way, he gets married and has a son who he adores and spoils. When his wife is unexpectedly killed, the one controlling influence on the boy is gone. What's next?

    Unlike "Edward, My Son", this film emphasizes a weird Oedipal relationship that eventually develops...which is interesting though not as realistic. And, unlike the other film, you see the son (Hayward)....and, oddly, you never actually see the son in the Tracy film.

    Overall, this film is exceptionally well acted and is well worth your time. Its message about spoiling a child is a tad muddled...but fascinating. Well worth your time....but the Tracy film is more of a must-see for old movie buffs.
  • Not having read the novel upon which this tedious film was based, I can only guess that it must have been epic and dense with lots of character detail, one of those historical romances the reader can get lost in. Translated to celluloid it becomes a long series of episodic sketches transporting us from the Victorian age to World War One. Brian Aherne comes across as a bland variation of Erroll Flynn; he seems to stand around looking vaguely disappointed much of the time. Amazingly, his character is a highly successful novelist-turned-playwright but we get no sense of what relationship his art has to who he is as a man. Ostensibly he is from the slums but never does he look, act or speak like someone from that social stratum. Madeleine Carroll as always is lovely to behold but is given very little to do. Louis Hayward has the meatiest role as the rotter son but even his character lacks depth. His delivery reminds one of Noel Coward, who, by the way, mentored him early in his career. The whole enterprise has a highly artificial look and feel, particularly in the battle sequences featuring Hayward. All this adds up to a most unengaging 2 hours.
  • didi-515 August 2002
    Having read the book I was quite keen to see this. Despite it not being the potboiler it could have been in later years, and having the terminally dull Aherne in the lead, the rest of the cast (specifically Louis Hayward, Laraine Day, Madeleine Carroll) spur the film along and keep the interest. It does suffer from a certain amount of sugary sentimentality from Aherne (and isn't he a bit too tall?!) but apart from that it does justice to its source and manages to be entertaining as well.
  • This is much more than just an account of troublesome relationships with constantly more messed up complications; the theme is timeless, and is observed right from the beginning by the reference to the troublesome relationship between king David and his son Absalom, but here the son is no rebel, he is given a perfect education and brought up to be the perfect gentleman, the problem is that his father never realizes his son has no character. His irresponsibility constantly wreaks disaster in relationships around him, and particularly for his father and his wife and closest friends. Too late he realizes that he never succeeded in bringing up his son, as he never became more than a cheat and a liar, which he too cleverly conceals under his charming surface of gentlemanly infallibility. Brian Aherne as the father and Louis Hayward as the son both make magnificent performances, while the best part of the story is the lifelong friendship between William Essex (Aherne) and Dermot O'Riorden (Henry Hull), both being Irish growing up together having hard times in downtown industrial Manchester, their friendship carrying them unchanged through every crisis. Only the women see clearly through Hayward's lack of character, his mother first of all, then also Brian Ahern'e's wife and other victims, while the father in his love remains blind until it is too late. Of course, the one thing you keep hoping for in stories like this is for the delinquent to some day come to any insight and remorse for bungling his life, and of course he finally does so when it is too late, while the father's love still naturally outlives him.
  • Warning: Spoilers
    After the brilliance of "Those High Grey Walls" it was inevitable that director Charles Vidor would most likely be stuck with a lesser screenplay for his next assignment.

    In fact, Edward Small now asked for Vidor's services on My Son, My Son (1940), an adaptation of Howard Spring's best-selling English novel about a best-selling English novelist, who does everything he can to spoil his son.

    Brian Aherne is the excessively fond father. Louis Hayward plays the wayward son who, after failing to seduce his future step-mother (Madeleine Carroll), succeeds instead in seducing the daughter (Laraine Day) of his father's best friend (Henry Hull).

    In the book by Howard Spring, the son dies by hanging; in the film, however, he dies a hero!

    Admittedly, director Vidor and his players give this potboiler from Howard Spring's remarkably successful novel the full treatment, but I would normally doubt if "My Son, My Son" would earn many brownie points among moviegoers and television fanatics today. But I stand corrected , however. The movie has earned some enthusiastic reviews at IMDb even though it betrays the book and provides an entirely different outcome for its degenerate "hero"!
  • MY SON, MY SON is an over-sized independent film released by United Artists, based on a popular novel of the 1930's. While the film may not have been completely true to the novel, I can't imagine the book being any better than this film given the absurd situations and characters.

    Brian Aherne and Henry Hull are two young buddies who dream of the day they will have sons. Hull wants his son to be courageous and with honor but Aherne, tired of poverty and struggle, wants his son to enjoy the luxuries in his life he never had. Eventually each man marries although they remain lifelong friends. Hull has a son and daughter while Aherne has a son as a result of a loveless marriage to a baker's daughter whose shop he helped run.

    Aherne becomes a best-selling novelist. He indulges his boy with the best of everything. The kid grows up feeling the world owes him a living without an honorable bone in his body, tracing drawings for school contests and stealing friends' books. He's also a pathological liar, able to lie himself out of any situation with his father. His conservative, religious mother Josephine Hutchinson fully sees her son for what he is but Aherne rejects her attempts at disciplining the brat. Years past and sonny boy is now 21 (and now played by Louis Hayward) but as selfish and spoiled as ever. Aherne goes uncover as a coal miner to obtain material for his next novel and meets young artist Madeleine Carroll who bewitches him completely but he cuts off their friendship since he is still married. Shortly thereafter he is widowed but has no way of tracking down the girl since he never knew her name and she never knew his real name. Meanwhile who should sonny Hayward happen to be pestering in the city but the lovely Miss Carroll who is apparently a few years older than he. She is amused with his company and lets him escort her to events although there is no real romance for either of them. Hayward happens to bring her to a play written by his father (and starring Hull's daughter, Laraine Day) and the star-crossed couple meet again. Aherne and Carroll are thrilled to be reunited and she's upfront with both men about their past relations. Hayward feigns to be OK that his dad has now won the affections of his date but behind the scenes is scheming and making Carroll as miserable as possible.

    While generally well acted, this story is so hackneyed the viewer can tell every plot twist in advance. There is major irony when Carroll, discussing a novelist (and unaware she is actually talking to that novelist, Aherne) comments about the author's inability to write credible female characters, given the stereotypical women that populate this potboiler: the frosty saint (the wife, Josephine Hutchinson), the walking perfection (Carroll), the silly, emotional girl (Laraine Day). One particularly tasteless scenario has Day secretly in love with Aerne, a man she as known all of her life as a "uncle" (as she and her brother have always called him). I also have to wonder why on earth the wonderful Madeleine Carroll even accepted this film. Although she enjoys top billing, her part is far smaller than that of Aherne and Hayward and not much larger than Hutchinson's or Day's.

    This was a rare starring film for Aherne, usually cast as a second lead, and frankly he is not up to the challenge. His speciality on screen was always something of a cad himself, in personality if not in actual roles, so this persona fails to mesh with this obsessively loving father role. Hayward is better though obviously older than his role; he was only seven years Aherne's junior, and while at 6'3" Aherne dwarfs the 5'10" Hayward, their scenes are shot at angles to play up the height difference to apparently make Hayward seem younger but at times only manage to make him look like a shrimp. This was also one movie that badly needed to be shot in sequence; Aherne's graying hair in the later scenes vary with each segment and in the final confrontation with Hayward it appears Aherne has his natural hair color from his youth!

    It's a bit silly that a mediocre film like MY SON, MY SON gets what airplay on TV it does via TCM's "Oscar month" since it received a lone nomination in production design. It certainly didn't get any votes for the acting, directing, or the film itself! And certainly not the writing, despite the reliable Lenore Coffee doing what she can with this uninspired reversed-sex "mother love" soap opera plot.