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  • Jack Lemmon is a misanthropic cartoonist who hates women, dogs, children and is going blind. He's just published a book called THE WAR BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN, and is enduring the inevitable cocktail party where people tell him that they don't understand his jokes and he can't draw. There he meets Barbara Harris, a divorced woman with several children, and they fall awkwardly into love.

    I first encountered James Thurber in the late 1960s and was largely enchanted. I think his misanthropy was one of dissatisfaction with people's inability to be forthright and strong and competent, and the fact that he couldn't draw a woman crouching on a staircase.... or the bookcase it became. A key figure in the New Yorker magazine, his talent was that of the second rank. A couple of stories survive, a couple of cartoons, but his misanthropy, masquerading as misogyny, does not play well anymore.

    So this is a bewildered romance, between the Thurber Man and the Thurber Woman, and it's a mildly depressing comedy, with the high point Jack Lemmon wandering through a gallery of giant drawings, while he narrates his book to Lisa Gerritsen. I think it captures Thurber's works well, given the quality of the adult cast, which includes Jason Robards and Herb Edelman.
  • One of Jack Lemmon's most innocuous pictures. He plays a professional humorist in New York City, a cynic and confirmed bachelor quickly losing his eyesight, who thinks very little of marriage, women and dogs. How soon do you think it will be before bookstore manager (and marriage-minded divorcée) Barbara Harris gets him to the altar? She's got the dog, plus three kids and a puppy dog-like former husband, but what's in it for Lemmon? We are never sure what motivates him to take on this brood, to attempt winning over the children, to compete for attention with the ex-spouse. It isn't incredible that Jack should fall for Miss Harris (she's winsome and a little daft, despite an ugly hairdo), but it is fairly difficult to believe Lemmon's character would take this plunge--and there's nothing in the script to convince us otherwise. The production is colorful, the animation interesting (if not amusing) and the acting very fine (particularly by young Lisa Gerritsen), however the essence of a plausible story is missing. Based on the writings of James Thurber, screenwriters Danny Arnold (who also produced) and Melville Shavelson (who also directed) shift from satire to the more outré, silly kind of TV comedy without grounding the scenario in a bittersweet style of realism. As such, the movie is one-part comedy (with satirical inflections), one-part drama (with pathos) and one-part character study (disguised as a family's journey). It isn't any wonder the end results are cute, yet iffy. Shavelson, Arnold and Gerritsen had all previously tackled Thurber on the short-lived television series "My World and Welcome To It". **1/2 from ****
  • The title of the film comes from a story told in drawings - The War Between Men and Women - whose author was the famous American humorist, James Thurber (1894-1961). Thurber's most famous work is the short story "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty" which was made into a movie starring Danny Kaye in 1947. A new version of "Mitty" is in production.

    The character of Peter Wilson played by Jack Lemmon in this film suffers from failing eyesight which also plagued Thurber and contributed to his unique drawing style. This film was probably inspired by William Windom's portrayal of a Thurber-like character in a TV series broadcast in 1969 called My World and Welcome To It which is a title of one of Thurber's books. Windom went on to do a one-man stage performance of Thurber's works including some animation of some of Thurber's drawings. At the end of The War Between Men and Women we see one of these animations, an anti-war piece by Thurber called "The Last Flower".
  • Peter Wilson is a cartoonist who doesn't want to admit he is going blind. So he memorizes the eye chart, and when his eye doctor uses a different chart, he accuses the doctor of being unethical. In the lobby after his eyes have been dilated and he is wearing dark glasses, he trips over Terry. Later, he and Terry meet when Peter has broken his glasses and almost gets run over trying to cross the street. Terry takes Peter home and he meets her children. Possible romance?

    Peter's work goes downhill after he gets interested in Terry. The proof: his book gets taken out of the front window at the bookstore where Terry works and replaced with her ex-husband's book of war photography. Still, the relationship progresses, and most of the rest of the movie has funny moments involving Terry's children and pregnant dog, and the return of Terry's ex. Toward the end the movie takes a serious turn, but that's okay because the characters are so likeable they don't have to be funny all the time.

    Peter's drawings come to life several times in the movie, including in the opening credits. There are several really good scenes where the drawings are animated, including one where Peter and Terry's ex have gotten too friendly for Terry to be comfortable with the situation and the two men have had too much to drink. A 'real' war breaks out. There is also a great scene with Terry's middle child Linda, where Peter's drawings have taken on a different meaning. Several fantasy scenes are quite funny, including one where Peter's sloppy apartment looks perfect for a change (then reality comes back and it's more like Oscar Madison's place; a real ironic twist considering Lemmon is the neat one in 'The Odd Couple').

    This isn't one of Lemmon's best movies, but it's not bad. And Lisa Gerritsen is quite good. I don't recall her having a speech impediment, but it seems to be an important part of her character, and she does it really well.

    This movie may have children in it, but younger children maybe shouldn't see some of the more risque material. It's quite tame compared to today's movies.
  • "The War Between Men and Women" is a film that is based on the life of the humorist, James Thurber. But instead of setting it during Thurber's lifetime and using his name, the story is set in 1972 and with different names for the various characters. It also takes liberties with Thurber's life story.

    When the story begins, Peter (Jack Lemmon) is a bit of an old crank...a single, dog and child-hating bachelor and proud of it. However, when he meets Terry (Barbara Harris), his resolve to remain single vanishes...as well as his hatred of kids and dogs since Terry has both. The rest of the film is about his adapting to this change in lifestyle....as well as Peter dealing with Terry's ex- (Jason Robards Jr.).

    As you'd expect with the actors, the acting is the best part of this film. As for the script, it's decent and entertaining. My only quibble is that I'd love to know how close this story is to Thurber's life. I mentioned some of the similarities above but am not sure how much of the story was 'Hollywoodized' and how much is true.

    The drawings that Peter makes throughout the film are based on the art style of Thurber as is the character being legally blind and an old crank. Thurber himself could not have made the drawings or weird animated portion as he'd died in the early 1960s.
  • Unless you are trying to see all of Jack Lemmon's films you should probably skip this film. Lemmon plays an almost blind cartoonist who is getting progressively worse. He has a weird relationship with Barbara Harris's character. She was formerly married to Jason Robards. The movie is not funny though it is supposed to be a comedy. It didn't really have any point or redeeming feature. 3 out of 10.
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    The War Between Men and Women as a whole is okay, but fairly meek. For a comedy it's more often just silly than humorous.

    Apparently it's a biographical film of sorts, leads Jack Lemmon and Barbara Harris are solid. Suppose there's meaning in it, of finding beauty from which everything stems, until feud or war breaks out and you "lose sight" of it or it's destroyed and you have to find the beauty again or start over. This feeling isn't as strongly captured within however. The animations are fine, but I dislike how they're merged into reality this way. Swish, swish, bish, another one in the casket, hehe.
  • amoscato12 January 2007
    This movie is based on Thurber's book and his life, it's funny but very touching, like James Thurber himself. Of course Thurber's absurdest humor is not everyone's cup of tea, and much of this movie was over the audiences head. As usual the almost forgotten Barbra Harris is perfect, funny pretty and just a bit mad. When this movie came out there was a TV show on at the same time based on the same work. It was called "My World & Welcome to It" Lisa Gerritsen played the daughter in both . What seems to annoy many people who see this movie is the use of Thurbers cartoons. And I admit it took me a while to finally get the humor in his cartoon strips. so, although this may only be a film for Thurber fans , it is an excellent one.
  • Very cute, with clever interweaving of cartoon and live action ( particularly for an older movie. Lemmon does an outstanding job, as does Gerritsen. Many endearing scenes, peppered with mostly good fun throughout.
  • A few weeks ago, I accidentally stumbled into the beginning-after the credits-of this movie while flipping channels. Since it was late, I didn't bother to watch the rest of it so when I found it in the listings again a few days later, I immediately time recorded it on the DVR. I'm very glad I did as I was enthralled by Jack Lemmnon's performance as a cartoonist who's going blind and, despite his cynical attitude concerning women and children, meets a lady (Barbara Harris) with three kids that he falls for as her temper matches his to a T! There's also her ex-husband (Jason Robards) to deal with whenever he comes to visit. Of the offspring, the most charismatic is the middle one played by Lisa Gerritsen-perhaps best known as Phyllis' daughter on both "The Mary Tyler Moore Show" and the spin off "Phyllis"-who has a speech impediment. As Lemmon's character is based on real life cartoonist James Thurber, we see drawings and animation by Playhouse Pictures that is directly inspired by his work including a perfect rendering of his picture tale called "The Last Flower". To me, The War Between Men and Women is both hilarious and very dramatically touching so on that note, this movie is highly recommended.
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    'The War Between Men and Women' was originally a suite of drawings by cartoonist/author James Thurber, depicting quite literally an all-out war between the two sexes. Thurber was an embittered misogynist (as well as a philanderer), so it's no surprise that he ended his "War" with the women offering unconditional surrender to the men.

    During his boyhood in Ohio, Thurber's older brother bullied him into a stupid game that cost young James an eye and seriously infected his other eye. Thurber's mother, for her own stupid reasons, delayed getting her son medical treatment for his surviving eye. (This may be one reason why he hated women.) For the rest of his life, Thurber experienced increasing blindness in his one eye, eventually requiring an enormous magnifying lens in order to see his own cartoons as he drew them. In addition to hating women, Thurber disliked most men too: one of his favourite tricks at social functions was to goad the most popular man in the room until the man was provoked into hitting Thurber ... thus becoming a social pariah for assaulting a blind man.

    The 1972 film 'The War Between Men and Women' is an intriguing comedy-drama, an intelligent attempt to do something different ... that ultimately fails. Part of the problem is this movie's deeply misleading title, which seems to promise sexual come-ons that never arrive.

    The central character (played by Jack Lemmon) is clearly inspired by the life and works of James Thurber, yet is significantly different from Thurber. (For one thing, he's a much nicer guy.) It's clear that scriptwriters Danny Arnold and Mel Shavelson have a deep love for Thurber's work. Shortly before this film, they had worked on the brilliant (though unsuccessful) TV series 'My World and Welcome to It', deeply inspired by Thurber's writings and cartoons. Shavelson had tried to dramatise Thurber's work at least as far back as 'Christabel', a 1959 episode of 'Goodyear Theatre'.

    Peter Wilson (Lemmon) is a cartoonist/author who is trying not to deal with the fact that he's going blind. An operation might save his sight, or it might accelerate the deterioration of his remaining vision. He has an annoying 'meet cute' with Terry Kozlenko (Barbara Harris), a divorcée with three disaffected children.

    A romance develops between Peter and Terry, with Peter attempting to be a surrogate father to her kids. But their father (Jason Robards) isn't completely out of the picture: he's a macho journalist whose book of war photographs is a best-seller. Lemmon brilliantly depicts mounting frustration as Peter realises that he and his twee storybooks can't compete with the derring-do of Terry's first husband.

    A fine performance as Terry's son David is given by an extremely talented child actor with the ill-fitting name Moosie Drier. (He doesn't in any way resemble a moose; why this name?) SLIGHT SPOILER COMING. At one point, Peter attempts a father-son talk with David while they stroll along a quay: suddenly David slips and falls into the water ... and he can't swim! The look on Lemmon's face is astonishing, as the nearly blind Peter realises it's up to him to save the drowning boy.

    The best performance in this film is given by Lisa Gerritsen, a dynamically talented child actress who was also in 'My World and Welcome to It'. (Gerritsen, now an adult, reportedly has cut all ties to her thespian career.) Terry's daughter Linda (Gerritsen) feels stigmatised by her speech impediment; Peter feels a bond with her because of his own encroaching blindness. In this film's most lyrical scene, Peter attempts to convey the act of creativity to Linda through his picturebook story 'The Last Flower'. This is actually an apocalyptic tale written and drawn by Thurber, brought to life here by splendid animation.

    In addition to despising women, James Thurber was a dog-lover. The funniest line in this movie occurs when Peter and Terry take her pregnant dog for a walk. Co-scripter Danny Arnold makes a cameo appearance as a cop, giving himself the chance to speak this line: a line that's not in James Thurber's writings, but which is so bluntly misogynist that Thurber would have howled in glee if he'd heard it. Despite this film's misleading title, the makers of 'The War Between Men and Women' showed real guts in attempting this unusual story. Based solely on my own tastes, I'll rate it 8 out of 10. Now, if someone would make a film version of Thurber's 'The Wonderful O', I could die happy.
  • I remember the time period when this movie came out. I never got to see the film at that time, which is too bad, because I liked the 1969 William Windom series, "My World, and Welcome To It." Both had roots in James Thurber, and both used live action and animation.

    OK, so maybe this isn't Jack Lemmon's greatest movie. And I suppose it would not resonate with audiences in 21st century America. But you had to be there to really understand.

    As it is, both Jack Lemmon and Lisa Gerritsen give great performances, and Jason Robards' appearance is always welcome. This is not a movie for everyone, but it is well worth a watch!!!
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    It takes a good sense of humor and a lot of honesty to admit that the problem in the world isn't mayo or female, but humanity in general, and this film takes a hysterical look at the issues that befall everyone regardless of gender. Jack Lemmon has written a book (the title of the movie) that has stirred up some controversy, and indeed, he is a man with a lot of problems. It's by an ironic coincidence that he meets Barbara Harris at a meeting with women discussing his book and they end up in a wacky relationship that results in marriage, made even wackier by the sudden arrival of her ex-husband, Jason Robards. No sooner has the jealousy subsided than the two men find themselves on the same side, having a wacky fantasy fight with animated figures from Lemmon's book, but by this time, the children from Harris and Robards' marriage have come to love Lemmon as if he was their father, probably because he's just an immature little boy in a grown man's body, and a wacky new playmate.

    Not only are the three leads amazing, 70's sitcom teen Lisa Gerritson ( "The Mary Tyler Moore Show", "Phyllis") is quite memorable as the oldest child from the first marriage, sort of like the Greek chorus of the film, and like she was as Cloris Leachman's daughter, much smarter than the adults. This is certainly very dated in modern terms, but it is such a wacky premise that it becomes hard to dismiss for certain attitudes it presents. Lemmon, whose character is completely blind without his glasses, has several hysterical scenes where he has to be rescued because of that, usually by Harris. Fans of the original "Freaky Friday" willl see similarities in her performance, and it's obvious that someone saw this and thought that you would be perfect as Jodie Foster's mother. She even gets to sing, reminding audiences that she was a talented Tony winning Broadway musical star.

    Like many films of the '70s, this has some great location footage in Manhattan, and the pacing is very fast, making it seem much shorter than it's near two hour running time. Lemmon, as the narrator, seems destined in the opening to steal the film because of his often misguided wit, but with Harris quickly introduced and Robards coming in later, this obviously will become a great ensemble piece where the kids are amusing and not cloying and in a smaller role, Herb Edelman ("Golden Girls") gets some good material as well. Of all the forgotten comedies of the '70s (many of which are indeed forgettable), this is perhaps one of the most underrated and most deserving a rediscovery, with the script and direction by Melville Shavelson top notch. There's a very funny cameo at the beginning by a well-known therapist, obviously spoofing her image and having a lot of fun. Lemmon, who got great acclaim the same year for the comedy "Avanti", and would win his second Oscar the following year, is at the top of his game, and Harris shows that she can be a fun wacky screen comic to rival that other Barbara, the one that tossed an a out of that first name and got to do one of Harris's Broadway musical roles on screen.