Luna: "Dear Grrl Power, my dad paid big bucks for my cheerleading uniform and all the accessories. But now that I've been rejected from the squad, he says that I have to pay him back. I have to either get on the team or get a job, double pronto. Help! Cheerleader from Chesapeake Bay." Cheerleading squads can be very cliquish, so I can imagine for one reason or another you've been branded an outsider. Forget trying to charm the squad leader. Instead, make a forward pass to the football coach. And once he gets a load of your Grrl Power, he'll straighten things out in no time.