My husband and I related to this show more than anything we have watched on TV since I can remember. We don't live in New York, or LA, or even Chicago, Atlanta, or Miami. We've raised our kids more than a thousand miles from both coasts, in a city most New Yorkers probably avoid and dread even visiting. But we still related to it.
Lizzy Caplan is the standout, IMO, as narrator Libby, a magazine writer turned housewife who searches her soul and reignites her creative mind when she gets a call from her old bestie, Jesse Eisenberg, after his divorce. She is an amazingly versatile actress. Her performance is stellar and held me almost rapt toward the end. She absolutely deserves nominations for this role.
Eisenberg is definitely Woody-Allen-ish, as others have said, as the recently divorced Toby, a liver doctor with a reverence for his chosen specialty (and organ) and a disdain for what he perceives as his ex wife's mercenary and conformist nature. He's good in the role, but not quite as good as either Danes or Caplan.
Clare Danes is well cast as Rachel, Toby's damaged and driven ex wife. She does trauma, crying spells and nervous breakdown as well as or better than any actress out there today. I mean that in a good way. It is hard to sympathize with Rachel at first but we certainly do (or at least I did) when we see what she has experienced.
Rachel's experience, and Libby's, reflect that of the well-educated, career-minded woman who also happens to be a wife and mother better than any show I have watched in recent memory . I'm a little older than they are, but these Older Milllenials (they are in their early to mid 40s) who are trying (or maybe not) to "have it all" just resonated with me so much. Not because I am just like them, but because they are authentic, complicated, infuriating and lovable at once.
Adam Brody is delightful as the confirmed bachelor BFF, the third wheel in the trio with Toby and Libby. Josh Radner is solid as Libby's stalwart husband. The child actors do a good job with their roles. I did find the storyline with Toby's daughter's Bat Mitzvah a little frustrating and hard to buy, but that's a minor quibble.
This isn't a light observational comedy as it seems like it might be when it starts. But it's something much better than that. While it does go to some dark places, including the Lincoln Tunnel, it is ultimately life-affirming. It's also genuinely funny in a smart way. I laughed out loud at a few moments and quietly at many others.
Shout-out to Christian Slater Libby's erstwhile idol, the writer of the book that gave me my biggest laugh!
Excellent show.