The Slap is a television series from Australia based on a book of the same name.
I had finished the entire series before I realized that the star, Jonathan LaPaglia, wasn't Anthony LaPaglia. I had noticed the discrepancy in the credits, but I thought it was the same actor, perhaps Anthony Jonathan LaPaglia, billed slightly differently in Australia.
Only after I googled him did I realize Jonathan LaPaglia is the younger virtually identical brother of the more well-known Anthony LaPaglia.
Much of the power of the series rests on LaPaglia's considerable sex appeal as Hector, his relationship with his creole wife, his affair with 17 year-old Connie, and a one sided school boy crush by Connie's best gay friend, 17 year-old Richie.
LaPaglia runs thru the entire series in nothing more than a pair of baggy shorts, an unbuttoned short sleeve shirt, and beach thongs.
"The Slap," occurs in the first episode. Hugo, an out of control toddler gets on every adult's nerves. His parents, Rosey and Gary pay not the slightest attention to their devilish spawn, letting him wreak havoc on everyone within his reach.
Perhaps Damien would have been a better name than Hugo, every parent's worst nightmare. He pulls out flowers planted in someone else's garden, pours potato chips over opened CD cases. Finally, one adult has enough, and slaps Hugo. The slapper was not Hugo's father. I would never even scold someone else's kid, no matter how badly he, or she was behaving. So I certainly wouldn't slap any child. And it was quite a strong slap, but still not rising in my opinion to the level of a criminal offense.
But the kid's slacker mother freaks out, screams child abuse at the top of her lungs, and attacks the slapper.
Later criminal charges are filed.
The court trial is gripping, the defense paints Hugo's mum as an unfit mother.
The Slap is really just the framework for the series, which is more about interpersonal relationships, about the difficulties of marriage, about sexual betrayal and redemption. The way life really is, not the way it's supposed to be.
You could also see The Slap as a battle of the sexes, because eventually virtually every man in the cast fails in his particular role as husband, son, cousin, father, even father-in-law.
Aside from that men and women pretty much evenly divide on the question about the slap itself, women believing the incident was earth shattering, the men generally wanting to sweep it under the rug and move on.
Disagreement about the slap and related issues rips marriages apart, and causes families to pull up stakes and move out of state.
Part of the dialog is in Greek! Because Hector's parents are immigrants from Greece. Sometimes there's subtitles, and sometimes there isn't. But each episode is presented with a voice over narrated introduction to keep you on track.
The Slap's best features are the strong cast, and excellent script beautifully filmed on location. No Los Angeles streets pretending to be Aussie.
I don't know if this program is typical of Australian television, but there is more sex per episode than in a whole season of American TV. Just about every man in the cast masturbates at some point. Of course Wally Cleaver also masturbated, but we never saw it! I'm told most men masturbate, but I have never been tempted myself.