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You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah

  • 2023
  • PG-13
  • 1h 43m
IMDb RATING
5.9/10
26K
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4,078
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Adam Sandler, Idina Menzel, Jackie Sandler, Samantha Lorraine, Sadie Sandler, Sunny Sandler, and Dylan Hoffman in You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah (2023)
It follows Stacey Friedman as she prepares for her bat mitzvah, but her plans comedically unravel and threaten to ruin the event.
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Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendshi... Read allStacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.Stacy and Lydia are BFFs who've always dreamed about having epic Bat Mitzvahs. However, things start to go comically awry when a popular boy and middle school drama threatens their friendship and their rite of passage.

  • Director
    • Sammi Cohen
  • Writers
    • Alison Peck
    • Fiona Rosenbloom
  • Stars
    • Idina Menzel
    • Jackie Sandler
    • Adam Sandler
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    5.9/10
    26K
    YOUR RATING
    POPULARITY
    4,078
    628
    • Director
      • Sammi Cohen
    • Writers
      • Alison Peck
      • Fiona Rosenbloom
    • Stars
      • Idina Menzel
      • Jackie Sandler
      • Adam Sandler
    • 154User reviews
    • 57Critic reviews
    • 71Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 2 wins & 2 nominations total

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    Idina Menzel
    Idina Menzel
    • Bree Friedman
    Jackie Sandler
    Jackie Sandler
    • Gabi Rodriguez Katz
    Adam Sandler
    Adam Sandler
    • Danny Friedman
    Sadie Sandler
    Sadie Sandler
    • Ronnie Friedman
    Sunny Sandler
    Sunny Sandler
    • Stacy Friedman
    Samantha Lorraine
    Samantha Lorraine
    • Lydia Rodriguez Katz
    Dylan Hoffman
    Dylan Hoffman
    • Andy Goldfarb
    Sarah Sherman
    Sarah Sherman
    • Rabbi Rebecca
    Dan Bulla
    Dan Bulla
    • Cantor Jerry
    Ido Mosseri
    Ido Mosseri
    • DJ Schmuley
    Jackie Hoffman
    Jackie Hoffman
    • Irene
    Luis Guzmán
    Luis Guzmán
    • Eli Katz
    Dean Scott Vazquez
    Dean Scott Vazquez
    • Mateo
    Miya Cech
    Miya Cech
    • Kym Chang Cohen
    Ivory Baker
    Ivory Baker
    • Megan Levy
    Dylan Chloe Dash
    Dylan Chloe Dash
    • Tara
    • (as Dylan Dash)
    Millie Thorpe
    Millie Thorpe
    • Nikki
    Zaara Kuttemperoor
    Zaara Kuttemperoor
    • Zaara
    • Director
      • Sammi Cohen
    • Writers
      • Alison Peck
      • Fiona Rosenbloom
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    User reviews154

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    6fgmdpwwp

    Cute little movie

    It's a cute little movie that i sbviously made for the younger crowd.

    I love the fact this is truly a family film, Adam Sandler, his beautiful wife, and two daughters.

    The clothing is modest. I don't recall hearing any foul langauge. Yeah, there is some crude Sandler style humor but not outragous.

    Sandler's daughters are cute as can be and actually have some talent. Granted it will grow with time and training. It will be fun to watch them grow.

    I can't pretend to understand the concept of such a great expense of a party at that age, but then again I don't understand the concept of expensive weddings. So what do I know?

    Sit back. Enjoy the show. Learn a bit about the Jewish religion and watch the struggles of a young teenage girl navigating hte world and a father's equally painful struggle with watching his little girls grow up.
    6pawanpunjabithewriter

    Light, Bittersweet Teen Turmoil

    The movie steps into the realm of teenage comedy, attempting to blend heartwarming moments with the chaos of preparing for a significant event. While the film brings a certain charm to the screen, it struggles to break free from the confines of its predictable storyline.

    The protagonist's journey is meant to be a comedic rollercoaster, but it sometimes feels more like a leisurely stroll. The film toys with the concept of a teenage coming-of-age story, yet the execution often falls into familiar territory, failing to fully explore the potential of its premise.

    Adam Sandler's presence lends the film a sense of familiarity and saves the movie big time. His natural comedic prowess shines through even in a supporting role. The young cast, including Sandler's daughters, adds a touch of authenticity to the teenage interactions, occasionally delivering moments of genuine humor and relatability. The chemistry among the younger actors, Idina, Jackie, Samantha is evident and carries the movie through its lighter moments.

    Although the film falls short in truly engaging the audience, the background score kept entertaining. The attempts at humor sometimes land flat, and the character development often remains surface-level. What it majorly lacks is stronger character arcs. Even though the writing is quite so-so, the execution looks weaker.

    On the brighter side it manages to present relatable teenage dynamics and familial interactions with a certain warmth. The themes of growing up, friendship, and family love are visible threads woven into the narrative adding to it a humorous chick-flick. Yet, the film occasionally stumbles in balancing these elements, resulting in a movie that can't quite decide whether it wants to be a heartfelt family story or a zany teen comedy.

    With its mix of endearing moments and missed opportunities, it manages to evoke a few smiles but leaves room for improvement. For those seeking a lighthearted diversion, the film may have its moments, but it won't be taking center stage among the classics of the teen comedy genre.
    7ellic1

    Delightful coming of age film

    I can't say that I'm an Adam Sandler fan but i have liked some of his work. This film is one of them.

    I was exhausted and decided to crash in front of the TV. I started Netflix and the movie started before I could see what else was on. I was too lazy to change it.

    Sandler did a put together a very enjoyable and poignant film. The writing is good as are the directing and editing. His daughters have talent and felt at home in their parts. And I just loved Luis Guzman as a Jewish father.

    The movie is obviously a coming of age film and it depicted the trauma and joy that can engulf a family, in this case Jewish, at a critical developmental point in life.
    Fanjina342434

    It's hokey but really OK!

    Very familiar story but cute film! Think diary of a wimpy kid but female. I liked the Sandler girls in this movie! I thought Sunny was great in her role as Stacy. I thought the role of Andy G ("factssss") was perfect for what this role was going for. I know this is an Adam Sandler movie but it's also feeling like a hand off of comedic career to his daughters. His eldest was very funny in it even though i felt more of her was needed. It is touching to see him older as dad and the focus on his daughter. It's a young teen vibe and movie. The actress playing Lydia was very good too as was the friend Kyle. He was ADORABLE! But we didn't see enough of him unfortunately. The Mateo kid I didn't really get , he is awkwardly younger and the flirting between him and the lead felt just as awkward as the accent they have him trying to use. But if they were going for awkward i guess they hit it? I also loved the character of the rabbi- the actress is from SNL and she was really fun to watch. The story has been done in different ways and I found it interesting they did the "dear god..." thing like in the Margaret film/books but overall it's a film where the chemistry between the two leading actresses as well as the sisters felt very authentic. I thought Adam as dad was sweet and honestly it was also sweet that he took a backseat to his daughter. She really did a great job!
    5danielmanson

    I lost interest

    I'll start by saying I didn't feel like I was the demographic this movie was going for, felt a lot like a young teen movie than anything else. So bare in mind before chucking it on.

    Like most, I clicked because it's an Adam Sandler film. He doesn't appear in it often, he's more of a side character so again if you're expecting a classic Sandler comedy with him as the main aspect then think again. The humour just wasn't the same as they went for a more teen humour and not Sandler humour, so it's really not what I imagine most will expect when clicking on this.

    So the film. Is it any good? It's very average and bland to put it bluntly. Humour didn't stick with me, forgettable plot and characters weren't particularly likeable either. I got a bit bored midway as you know how this film will end and the journey to get there isn't thrilling either.

    For me, the characters were the most frustrating part of this watch. They definitely had elements nailed on in terms of how 13 year old girls act and behave at school etc but the personalities sucked. Stacy, the main character here, kept making awful decisions and just had a poor character arc that really made me not like her by the end.

    It's honestly just an average watch that you will likely forget by tomorrow morning.

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    • Trivia
      Although Sunny Sandler and Sadie Sandler have worked with their dad Adam Sandler before, this is their acting debut with him in a supporting role instead of as the main character.
    • Goofs
      Stacey's weekly Torah portion is Ki Tisa, the story of the Golden Calf. Based on the Jewish calendar, this is read in the winter. But Stacey's bat mitzvah is in June.
    • Quotes

      Bree Friedman: D'your mom and dad know we're taking you?

      Lydia Rodriguez Katz: Well, I told my mom, and she told dad's lawyer, so were good to go.

    • Connections
      Features Child's Play 2 (1990)
    • Soundtracks
      10 Things I Hate About You
      Written by Leah Kate (as Leah Kate Kalmenson), Mike Wise (as Michael Joseph Wise) and Madison Yanofsky

      Performed by Leah Kate

      Courtesy of TenThousand Projects/Virgin Music

      Under license from Universal Music Enterprises

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    • Release date
      • August 25, 2023 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Official sites
      • Film Sözlük
      • Komedi Filmleri
    • Languages
      • English
      • Hebrew
    • Also known as
      • ¡No estás invitada a mi bat mitzvah!
    • Filming locations
      • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
    • Production companies
      • Alloy Entertainment
      • Happy Madison Productions
      • Netflix
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    • Budget
      • $27,000,000 (estimated)
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 43 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 2.39:1

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