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Lilies Not for Me

  • 2024
  • Unrated
  • 1h 39m
IMDb RATING
7.1/10
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Fionn O'Shea and Robert Aramayo in Lilies Not for Me (2024)
A gay novelist and his psychiatric nurse bond over a series of doctor-ordered 'dates' as he tells the story of a friendship which spiraled out of control when they turned to a risky procedure to cure themselves of feelings for each other.
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A gay novelist and his psychiatric nurse bond over a series of doctor-ordered 'dates' as he tells the story of a friendship which spiraled out of control when they turned to a risky procedur... Read allA gay novelist and his psychiatric nurse bond over a series of doctor-ordered 'dates' as he tells the story of a friendship which spiraled out of control when they turned to a risky procedure to cure themselves of feelings for each other.A gay novelist and his psychiatric nurse bond over a series of doctor-ordered 'dates' as he tells the story of a friendship which spiraled out of control when they turned to a risky procedure to cure themselves of feelings for each other.

  • Director
    • Will Seefried
  • Writer
    • Will Seefried
  • Stars
    • Fionn O'Shea
    • Robert Aramayo
    • Erin Kellyman
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  • IMDb RATING
    7.1/10
    501
    YOUR RATING
    POPULARITY
    2,893
    1,326
    • Director
      • Will Seefried
    • Writer
      • Will Seefried
    • Stars
      • Fionn O'Shea
      • Robert Aramayo
      • Erin Kellyman
    • 4User reviews
    • 6Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win total

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    Fionn O'Shea
    Fionn O'Shea
    • Owen James
    Robert Aramayo
    Robert Aramayo
    • Philipp
    Erin Kellyman
    Erin Kellyman
    • Dorothy Ellis
    Louis Hofmann
    Louis Hofmann
    • Charles
    Jodi Balfour
    Jodi Balfour
    Jacques Bessenger
    Jacques Bessenger
    • Bartender
    Michael Everson
    • Orderly
    Gabe Gabriel
    Gabe Gabriel
    • Patient 1
    Celeste Loots
    Celeste Loots
    • Nurse
    Alexander Maniatis
    Alexander Maniatis
    • Patient 2
    Nicholas Pauling
    Nicholas Pauling
    • Mr. Green
    Adrienne Pearce
    • Matron
    Benjamin Pelser
    • Baby Vicky
    Marc Pleass
    • Doctor
    Albert Pretorius
    Albert Pretorius
    • Attendant
    Aidan Scott
    Aidan Scott
    • Young Man
    Kyle Swart
    • Young Man
    • Director
      • Will Seefried
    • Writer
      • Will Seefried
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    10ksmoracco

    Stunningly beautiful, shocking, unforgettable

    "Lilies Not For Me," directed by the talented Will Seefried, made a sensational debut at the Edinburgh Film Festival on August 16, 2024. This captivating film, a profound exploration of the queer experience in the early 1900s, has left an indelible mark on me and the others privileged to see it. Poignant storytelling, stellar performances, and evocative direction.

    From the moment the film begins, Seefried masterfully draws the audience into the world of Owen, a complex and relatable protagonist whose journey of self-acceptance is inspiring. The film's narrative is beautifully woven, presenting the struggles of the queer experience in the early 1900s with an authenticity that resonates deeply. The director's ability to capture the nuances of Owen, Philip, and Charlie's emotional experiences is nothing short of brilliant, showcasing his keen insight into the human condition. The actors were perfectly chosen for their roles, and the chemistry and emotion was gripping.

    The cinematography is breathtaking, with each frame meticulously composed to enhance the emotional depth of the story. The use of natural light and carefully chosen color palettes creates a visually stunning backdrop.

    One of the film's greatest strengths lies in its script, which balances moments of intense emotion and gripping terror, with instances of joy and light. The dialogue is sharp and historically accurate, capturing the essence of human interactions and the internal dialogues we often have with ourselves.

    The film's score is another highlight, perfectly complementing the narrative's emotional beats. At times the story left me breathless and with my heart pounding. It adds an extra layer of depth to the film, making certain scenes particularly memorable.

    Will Seefried's direction is visionary, guiding the audience through the story with a deft hand. His ability to elicit such powerful performances from his cast, combined with his keen eye for detail, marks him as a director to watch in the coming years. Seefried's understanding of pacing ensures that the film remains engaging throughout, with each scene building upon the last to create a cohesive and impactful narrative.

    Lilies Not For Me is a triumph of modern film making - engaging, shocking, unforgettable. 10/10.
    10Iamtiredofrubbish

    Hauntingly Beautiful

    Apart from the sudden love triangle, Lilies Not For Me is a mesmerizing and painful tale of a past which shouldn't have existed in the first place. The misguided notion of curing homosexuality by testicular transplant was captured so beautifully. Each and every actor gave their all. And Fionn probably gave his career best performance. Not a moment went by that i felt any of them were acting. The cinematography was as best as one can get in the industry. Direction top notch. Background music, the piece that completed the puzzle. I want to write so many things but I don't want to spoil the movie for anyone. It should be experienced without spoilers. One should understand the sacrifices so many Queer people had to make to just exist, to love, to live like a regular person.

    Movies like this should be pushed for Oscars/BAFTAS/Golden Globes. Not Anora or Emilia Perez with their average performances.
    8afiramadhan-22984

    Beautiful.

    Just witnessed the world premiere here in Edinburgh International Film Festival 2024. An unexpectedly beautiful film. I braced myself for tears but left with a smile. It's a heartbreaking exploration of the dark side of the queer history in 1910s and 1920s , exposing the horrors of conversion therapy and unethical medical experiments. Yet, it's also a stunningly tender portrayal of love, loss, and the complexities of human emotion. The 1920s setting is simply breathtaking; it evokes the same sense of longing and beauty as Call Me By Your Name. I applaud the film for balancing the harrowing depictions of queer history with heartwarming portrayals of love. A truly remarkable film. Kudos!

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    • Release date
      • April 30, 2025 (France)
    • Countries of origin
      • United Kingdom
      • South Africa
      • France
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Les fleurs du silence
    • Production companies
      • Wolflight
      • Paradise City
      • Cinetic Media
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    • Runtime
      1 hour 39 minutes
    • Color
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    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.66 : 1

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