Her Story

At the Berlin screening, the audience was 99% Chinese, with 95% of them being women. Walking out of the cinema with my friend, I just felt utterly refreshed. It's been a long time since I felt, "I paid for the ticket and truly got an excellent experience in return."

The film isn't perfect-there are moments where you wonder if it's not deep enough, or if its structure feels limited, loose, and incomplete. Yet, that doesn't take away from the fact that it's light, joyful, and entirely comfortable-what a rare and precious quality that is. Every ten minutes you'll laugh along with other audience. It talks about feminism and women's self-discovery, but it doesn't feel detached from real life or overly dramatic. Neither does it rely on empty theories. Unlike some films, it doesn't give you the impression that the director is portraying an imagined version of life, but rather something genuine and relatable.

Too many movies settle for just scratching the surface of deep topics, whereas "Her Story" jumps right in. This film is a triumph across the board; the playful artistic choices, colorful dialogue, and effortless flow from scene to scene. The dinner conversation may go down as one of my favorite film moments of the year. The film explores a variety of topics from motherhood to childhood education to depression without judgement and without pandering, respectfully leaving audiences to ponder them. It's a joy in English, even better if you know a little Chinese. Her Story (Hao DongXi) will rightfully go down as one of the best films of 2024.

NOTE: Minus 1 point for a depiction of a jobless single woman drinking Singleton straight out of the bottle, you must be joking single malts ain't cheap people..

The film explores the modern day challenges of women in China and especially being a single mother. On a deeper level, it explores the ability for women to courageously live the life they wish to live. The expectations placed upon them and the relationships between mothers and daughters, and between women and 'womanhood'. Extrapolate this out though it's also about people in general living within the confines of social expectations set for them instead of chasing after the things that bring them joy - and the real costs of that.

Every so often a movie leaves me with thoughts and feelings beyond the plot that makes me want to watch it again. This is one of them.

The movie feels like a kindhearted friend telling you stories about ups and downs realities of a life well lived. I found myself laughing and crying with the characters and entranced by the connections, chemistries that they shared.

Unclear to me though if watching as a non-mandarin speaker will be able to understand the nuances of what's said.

If I have one complaint about the film it would be that it tried to tackle too many themes. Because of that points it felt like some of the commentary was a bit shallow. Nonetheless, it still got me thinking and apparently now writing about it.

Giving this an 8/10 rating

This is a super film from writer director Yihui Shao, which has been so popular that every showing has sold out, I finally managed a seat today and it was well worth it, this might be the best film from China this year, so I do recommend it.

This drama about a parent and daughter, the next door neighbour female trio has everything, soul searching, plenty of laughs, full on great story and acting, some very good looking shots too. Jia Song, Elane Zhong and Isabella Zeng are the main three who are on full on top form with the juicy script that is just full of delight, Zeng really steals the film and holds her own. The men are not left out, Mark Chao and Yu Zhang deliver as well, and are just plain out and out funny, and given the situations for all involved, you just have to follow the madness of the ups and downs of the cast.

As this is spoiler free, I can't write anything more on the plot, but it is such a well made film I do say it was worth seeing and worth the wait.

Delightful movie that brings up serious topics about expectations from both society and from people themselves, without being somber or bringing in antagonists. All the characters are very mature, and shine through how they introspect and deal with their own issues.

Although the main topic woven through the plot is feminism, the film shows us similarities to expectations about talent, relationships, parenthood and school. How the characters grow around these topics is the real substance of the movie, and it's put together in a way that balances humor and substance well.

What's really bolding this back though, is that there are a few moments were the writer/director let themselves get carried away and we get characters essentially dictating what we are supposed to think in that moment. This is unnecessary as the movie was already getting us to think about these topics, and it really whiplashes you out of the movie at those points.

This even happens with the Shanghai location: at some point we see her walk past the Sihang storehouse full with bullet holes from where the legendary RoC company made their last stand against the Japanese, and the dad says something about not making noodles much because they're southerners. But then later the mom just says "we live in Shanghai" to her own daughter.

Overall definitely recommend, very uplifting and likeable for a large variety of audiences.