First impressions on my first watch when "Remember Me" first aired were not good at all, with the dull, repetitive story, the unspeakably bad guest turn and Olivia's behaviour particularly standing out in a bad way. 'Law and Order: Special Victims' varied wildly when it came to episodes revolving around hostage situations or have one as part of a case. When it did it well, it was hard hitting and suspenseful, like the climax of Season 14's "Poisoned Motive". When done badly, like here, it was needlessly melodramatic and severely lacking in tension.
"Remember Me" on rewatch is every bit as bad as remembered. Even worse actually, with the flaws being the same but even stronger and also managed to find more wrong it. Is it irredeemable? No, the worst episodes (such as "Intimidation Game") are very bad they all still had a couple of halfway decent things and "Remember Me" did have those. That however were lost underneath everything that was wrong. For me, and this was true for first watch, this is the worst episode of Season 19.
Beginning with the very few things that were good, some of the production values were slick and gritty enough. The music has moments of unsettlement without being too intrusive.
Had a low opinion on the acting this time, but there was an exception and that was a sturdy Ice-T who was the only one who seemed involved and concerned properly about what was a potentially tense situation. Appreciated that he wasn't underused
Did on the other hand feel that this time the acting was poor near-all round, something that even most of the other lesser episodes didn't suffer from. This is including the regulars, Mariska Hargitay more often than not is good and more and even brilliant, but she is at her most one dimensional here with perhaps two or three repeated expressions. Genesis Rodriguez's overwrought performance particularly sticks out like a sore thumb. Didn't find myself caring for any of the characters, including and especially Rodriguez's because of how extremely she behaves.
The episode moreover suffers from a very thin story that would only just about been enough to fill 25 minutes or so but feels really over stretched. And from a dull pace, especially in the second half where the story was clearly struggling to keep the exhaust fumes going. The dialogue is very repetitive, as is everything that goes on in the apartment, everything regarding the past crime was like going round in wildly melodramatic circles. The tension is severely lacking, the climax is not nail biting or suspenseful but rather whatever.
Like most episodes from Season 19, this reviewer really hated Olivia's character writing, coming over as self-righteous and making up her mind and won't listen to another. Have had it with her being too trusting of victims and being insistent of them telling the truth when there have been some episodes where the victims lied. Team work is almost non existent for too much of the length, with a lot of staring at technology and there is nowhere near enough urgency.
In conclusion, very weak with many terrible things. 3/10.