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  • jacklynebetty26 March 2020
    As Deborah Feldman said in the Making of Unorthodox, the languages spoken may be foreign to some, but the happenings within the story line are universally understood.

    Completely underrated.
  • The subject may not attract everybody, but the story is actually universal. The struggle of the main character can be applied to every religious or closed society, actually it applies to every community. The series are well done and fast paced, it kept me focused for almost four hours. Thought provoking and emotional at the same time. The main actress is just superb. Highly recommended.
  • Warning: Spoilers
    The story itself is compelling. It is based on Deborah Feldman's memoir regarding her departure from a particularly strict and insular Ultra-Orthodox Jewish community in Brooklyn, NY. Ms. Feldman's character in the miniseries is named "Esty," a 19 year old woman played by actress Shira Haas. Esty is pregnant, in an unhappy marriage, and secretly leaves the community to head to Berlin, where her mother (who also left the community) lives. Esty, who has an interest in music, befriends some music students while in Berlin.

    The plot revolves around Esty's struggles to adjust to the outside world, her interactions with the music students, and to her attempt to elude her husband, who travels to Berlin to bring Esty back. According to the "Making of..." episode, Ms. Feldman explained that the interactions with the music students never really happened. No surprise there; Esty's scenes with the music students were the only real flaw in the plot. At times the group seemed a bit contrived (multi racial?, check. Gay students?, check. Handsome potential romantic interest?, check).

    Rising star Shira Haas shines. She attacks this role with extraordinary emotional intensity. She can't be more than 5' tall and can't weigh more than 100 lbs., but she has a formidable screen presence. You feel her pain and anxiety with every breath and facial expression. You can't take your eyes off of her. We will be seeing more of her.
  • The deeply moving true story of Esty, a young woman who never felt like she fit in with her extremely structured Jewish Orthodox community in New York City. Viewed as an "orphan" by her immediate family, Esty is very close with her maternal Grandmother, who seems to be her only true friend after being abandoned by her birth mother, who "shamed" the family by marrying outside of her faith.

    The story begins at different points, swinging back and forth from the recent past, where a "Matchmaker" arranged for Esty's marriage to the similarly awkward son of a jeweler, to the present, where Esty flees to Berlin, Germany with virtually only the clothes on her body. For the first time, Esty experiences a world of progress', progressive ideas, and progressive ways of life. A group of young musicians enter Esty's life and change everything. - Will an abandoned husband and the angry extended family accept Esty's "unorthodox" life choices? Not without a fight!

    As a native to Berlin, this story is deeply touching my heart. I see in Esty's story elements of my own family history, and the history of this world. It gives me hope that we will do more than "never forget", but continue to grow as decent human beings, to get ever closer to the potentials of humanity, living peacefully to enjoy the one life we have, and to contribute to the joy of others. There is so much more that unites us than sets us apart. As a television drama series, "Unorthodox" is among the finest I've been privileged to see.
  • brebeard26 March 2020
    10/10
    Humbled
    I cried a little while I reflected a lot. Beautifully told story. Wonderfully acted. Etsy's journey was relatable not because she was Jewish but because she was a young woman on a journey to womanhood, independence, Self-efficacy
  • This little gem packs such a punch, it really is a little masterclass. I found myself rooting for certain outcomes with the introduction of every character. The cast is so well put together it is hard not to be engrossed in this world, a world that the producers have presented with such an authentic feel. I was hooked and found it very hard to take a break; I watched the 4 episodes in 2 sittings. Several emotional scenes are played out so well and effortlessly you forget you are watching netflix.

    A stunning must see.
  • seyyiderten10 April 2020
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    -yes the movie gives very powerful messages about taking control of your life, being wherever you fell comfortable, choosing the path even if it is full of pain and struggles, not fitting in is a phenomena to avoid....I get all these messages the movie presents.

    But At the same time I feel sorry for the Yakov too. He is also not free in his choices. his relations and decisions are strictly controlled by the community he belongs. He is not aware of the immaturity on sex, social relations etc. so I feel sorry for Yakov. Yes he did talk about the divorce, but at the end he was not aware of the inclosure he lived in. So every decision should be understood within the conditions that take place. I cannot neglect the character as the script did, and I think for a man that is ready to change himself and even resign from religious duties, he was as brave as Esther. At the end he was ready to take a step outside of his comfort zone.
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    I have read Deborah Feldman's book, and this show disappointed me. The whole backstory, the protagonist's childhood and adolescence, her family, everything you need to know to fully understand why she left, is almost completely missing. What's left is an unhappy marriage and the sooo unrealistic flight to Berlin, where she immediately meets a bunch of nice young people from all over the world, finds a new love and gets the chance to audition for a scholarship. It's like a fairy tale, not a true story. This is a far cry from Frau Feldman's experience as she presents it in the book. It's a shame. We could have learned so much more about this orthodox community in New York, but instead a lot of screen time is wasted on that ludicrous Berlin storyline. Inspired by the book? Maybe. But that's obviously not enough.
  • This is a very well made movie, breaking through the fiberglass batting insulation of the Hasidic community in Brooklyn, to help us understand the feeling we get when we walk through .

    For the month I was there , not one single person of that particular costumed community said as much as a "good day" to me or even made eye contact. I felt like I was in (and in FACT I was in ) a foreign country.

    I walked for miles and miles almost every day trying to understand what was giving me this feeling of being a complete alien... I've never been in a community like it in my life before.

    It slowly dawned on me that this was the way the culture operates, outsiders are outsiders and there's no way they'll be allowed in.

    As I got to the peripheries , close to Prospect Park, the oppressive weight started to lift as the Latino and Italian neighbourhoods smiled back at me and straightened me up.

    How can two cultures be so different when they are so close together?

    The story told in this series, about a young girl trying to escape the strictures of an arranged marriage, sounds as though it could apply to any of the young Jewish girls I saw pushing strollers with two or three kids hanging on to their apron strings.

    It's hard not to be taken aback at the depth of control and the level of obedience imposed on both the men and the women of this sect but it obviously works for most of them, as the community seems to thrive.(Just look at the Amish Community if you want a reference point)

    The acting is just superb and the director manages to evoke sympathy for the naive husband who, in a way, is trapped in the same unhappiness. The girl who plays the lead (Esty) is a wonderful actress who is able to go from beautiful young bride to-be, to a dowdy potential baby factory and back to a free young woman again and she does it convincingly.

    The rest of the cast draws us in to the culture in a way that could never happen in real life but in the end you're no closer to understanding why it continues to be so different.

    I really enjoyed the story and the portrayals, it has a bittersweet ending and I felt better for having watched it.
  • On the whole I enjoyed Unorthodox. The story of a young woman who doesn't fit in to an orthodox Hasidic community in New York, and has to escape, is powerful, and all production values are high-class. The acting is uniformly excellent. So why did some of it seem not as compelling as other parts? The depiction of the community in New York is just superb. To an outsider it seems completely authentic. Everything rings true. Magnificent. But the sections of this four-part series set in the Berlin she escapes to seem far less real and believable. Why? I think the answer comes in the 'making of' section which you can watch after the final episode. It appears that they were mostly dreamed up by another mind, presumably at netflix' instigation. Once you know that, the difference between the stunning realism and power of the original story and the so-so Berlin sub-plots is completely explained. If I were the author I would have been grimacing through half of the Berlin scenes... but of course, being netflix, I'd have been grimacing all the way to the bank. I now want to read the original.
  • You know when something is really special when you think about it a lot afterwards. The acting, cinematography and costume were nothing short of incredible. Such an eye opener and breathtaking. Definitely watch the 'making of' follow up. This will win awards.
  • Warning: Spoilers
    They got complex and layered story and simplified to a huge extent.

    Considering her situation and her background, things happened WAY too easy and too fast to her. Netflix opted for the fairy tale approach instead of realism, that is a pity. It could have been much stronger.

    There are things that the audience cannot ignore: How can someone so naive (as she is portrayed) be homeless but always clean and never hungry? She made those friends literally minutes after her mother didn't answer the door. The Arabic speaking well-educated man who works in a music academy just gives her a ham sandwich.

    It is still an interesting story but there is so much potential lost. It should have been a regular series with more episodes, providing the opportunity to explore her life in NY and then her journey in Europe.
  • SofiCastle16 April 2020
    Warning: Spoilers
    Ms Feldman is a remarkable young woman who left her ultraorthodox community, became a literary sensation in the US and eventually moved to Berlin. She was brought up to be a man's servant and a mother, was not educated, had to sneak read English literature in a NY neighborhood where Yiddish is obligatory. Married at 17, a mother at 19, she managed to convince her husband to move out of Williamsburg and to let her study literature in college and drive a car, and made a sensation publishing her memoir "Unorthodox". She continued to publish her works and, in her late twenties, she decided to get a divorce, take her son and move to Berlin, where she continues being a writer. This is a miraculous yet plausible story I would have liked to watch. Instead, in "Unorthodox" a la Netflix, loosely (emphasis on loosely) based on Ms Feldman's life, the heroine, Esty, flees her community at age 19, with practically no money, no education and no knowledge of the outside world whatsoever (I am surprised she found her way around the airport to begin with), goes to constantly sunny Berlin, becomes a homeless person, yet not only nothing bad happens to her, but she makes a bunch of new friends and meets a new lover on day one. Also, she proves to be a talented singer (actually singing with the voice of a well trained singer - miracle!) and gets a scholarship in a conservatoire where, by the way, noone speaks German. All the above, including how much it pisses me when shows have no knowledge and no respect whatsoever for all the hard work singers put in training their voices - I bet you the actress has had at least three years of musical training), plus some pretty lame ideas like the Arab professor buying the jewish girl he just met a ham sandwich, make for a bad script which ruined this show for me. On the plus side, the director did a good job, the actors playing members of the Satmar community gave good performances (the ones in Berlin much less so, maybe because they didn't act in their mother tongue), both Esty and Yanky were wonderful and the depiction of the way of life of the Satmars very interesting (assuming it is more accurate than Berlin-sunny-paradise-for-homeless-foreigners). I still wish I had seen the real story.
  • rorogq27 March 2020
    A true memoir of a real life community who's secrets are hidden to the public. The story is beautifully told, cinematic, dramatic and sometimes intense. Just what I needed!
  • A young woman, trapped by the culture of orthodox religion escapes to start a fresh life, build new friendships, learn. Pursued by those that won't let go, she exercises the power to be herself come what may.

    An inspiring piece of film making and a standout performance by Shira Haas. Hopefully goes some way to enlightening and empowering those in similar positions, demonstrating that there is a way to independence and self fulfilment, while educating a wider audience to the challenges faced by some, in the presence of traditions dating back to the pharaohs - overwhelmingly traditions used by men to control women.
  • This movie is a must watch, it shows how far we have come, how far we can go. I binge watched but there were times that I just had to pause and get air for sometime coz it's intense and it's surreal despite being so rooted in reality. Every single cast member were complex and had an arch, it was amazing really. I'm glad they y didn't dumb it down for us (outsiders of the community). Me pausing the show, to find out meanings of words and rituals didn't spoil my experience of the show but enriched it. There were moments I recoiled, moments I sympathized, moments I cried, but in the end I was touched by beautiful cinematic experience.
  • zippytango29 March 2020
    Unorthodox is literally spellbinding. When I started the first episode, I had to watch them all, on the spot. I couldn't tear myself away. That never happens. Shira Haas plays Esty, and she is simply amazing. This story sheds light on the mysterious orthodox Jewish tribes or communities in what must be quite a realistic manner. It's fascinating, but viewers quickly identify with Esty's feelings of being smothered and of not belonging. One thing the film did so very well was bringing the viewer to see what it was like for Esty to experience so many things we take for granted, for the first time, and how those experiences captivate her and make us feel quite lucky to have access to them without a second thought. At the same time, I felt for the community, her tribe... they are different, but that's life. The only thing they are guilty of is making it too difficult for those wishing to leave. I haven't read the book the film is based on but I will now.
  • Overall I really liked the show, it was interesting to gain a little insight in a world that I'm not familiar with. The acting was really good. But it went down the drain when the story moved to Berlin. The writer changed the story so much that it became a gimmick. Meeting a group of divers people, immediately becoming your best friends, 5 seconds after you get off the plane, is just ridiculous. Especially in contrast to the start of the movie, where the story still felt true. It's a shame, could have been a lot better if they didn't try to add their own spin on the story. Still worth the watch
  • ria28200330 March 2020
    I was born and raised in the Jewish faith...not orthodox or Hasidic but have friends who are. I was deeply moved by this film. This movie is a beautiful reflection of a community and the struggle for individuality. I think they did a great job of not disrespecting the Hasidic community while also telling an honest story representing female empowerment. Regardless of a person's spiritual beliefs, this story is universal about finding yourself and your own voice.
  • gallagherkellie24 April 2020
    7/10
    Sad
    Warning: Spoilers
    Very sad that women are forced to live this way. Also felt very sorry for Yanky as he didn't know any better either. The only issue I have is the first person she met in Berlin happens to be an attractive male who is into her even though she looks 14. No one even asks how old she is. Other than that great acting and storyline. Would love to see more.
  • smokeyandashes28 March 2020
    This is excellent and exceptionally well done! It's a real look into a different world. Hard to believe this exists in New York.
  • Warning: Spoilers
    Once again we get to witness religious zealots abusing women in the name of religion. Watching this reinforces how men in society continue this practice but more importantly how some women are equally complicit. The story is well told with a very realistic perspective of how this young woman courageously fought to find her own way in a world that was not prescribed!
  • I watched the series and it was ok I would have given it an 8 but then I read the actual book and I have to lower the rating to 5 or even less. I would never undertand why they couldn't make the series true to the book. The book is real and excelent. The story is good enough. Biggest difference is the travel to Germany, it did not make much sense to me in the series but ok. But this is nowhere in the book. Why did they have to add it? Adding action and suspense to the original story just spoils it unnecessarily.

    The "bad" jew accompanying the offended husband and then finding a gun in germany to threaten the running away bride is just stupid. Normal people don't do that. Why would anyone risk years of prison carrying a gun in a country with such strick gun control laws. Making the hasidic look as bad boys is just silly.

    Some of the best series I have seen are true to the books they are based on or with minimum changes. This is not the case here but I do recommend reading the book.
  • Great actors, dialog, cinematography and story. After watching all 4 episodes I went back through each one and wrote down several question like "why was she wearing a wig", "why was the kitchen literally covered with aluminum foil when they were having that special dinner"? and "why do the men wear those cool hats"? After spending a couple of hours looking up the answers I realized that I have been educated as well as entertained. Two for the price of one. Can't beat a deal like that. My favorite part was the wedding sequence. It was absolutely perfect and her wedding headdress was without equal. Thanks Netflix for educating and entertaining me.
  • lbrega27 March 2020
    Warning: Spoilers
    The universal quest of finding oneself. Esther is leaving a very closed community as an uneducated, pregnant young woman. Sensitive and lovely story.
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