pretentious and unreal I thought it was great until the hotel room argument and she comes back- that is not marriage. The points and insecurities echo real marriage but she came back twice! Maybe to get her shoes but it all seemed very scripted. guess what it is! It's a movie and you can't get lost in that fact. That fact never disappears. There were hints before during the walk that looked more like they were dating rather than dating for many years. The feeling that they don't know each other is obvious to me, actors playing roles. They have a bit of chemistry but not married chemistry for sure. That is essential in this movie. I like the philosophical concepts addressed but I can't go beyond that.