Creepy Colin emotes and wallows I have to ask, what is the value of this person, (Colin Firth's character) that we are expected to have interest in him and sympathy for him? He sleepwalks through his job, is perfunctory with the people he encounters, does not seem to have family, and spends his time mooning about and plotting self destruction. As his great friend supposedly, Julianne Moore is pretty improbable, but I appreciate her advice to him to do something with his life. If you are depressed, look to help other people, or embrace some cause, and quit being so self-absorbed. I hate the shallowness and privilege of these people, the drinking, emoting and the idle chatter. I am probably a homophobe as the romantic stuff makes me want to puke. However, imagining for a moment that the great love that Colin lost was a woman, that wouldn't have improved my opinion of the film. I can't help relating the situation to instances of celebrities committing suicide, which make me ponder whether if their lives had been a bit harder, they would have been more resilient and less weakly self-indulgent. I'm just trying to watch the film til the end so I can feel that this review is a fair one, but believe me, it requires considerable effort.