Lunch does n't cook relationships The Lunch Box a refreshing change from the usual. It features a neglected housewife and a lonely widower both linked by the now world-famous Mumbai dabbawala network. This marginalized housewife, also a mother a of a little girl, is counseled by an old caring neighbor, herself looking after an invalid husband, to reach her husband thru his stomach, following the age-old maxim.
This right remedy, by an error of the 'infallible' dabbabwala network, is delivered to the wrong person. A lonely widower, somewhat misunderstood in his working and living environments, benefits from this tummy-trick. Thereafter, forgetting about the wrongness of delivery, we see a series of exchanges between the housewife and widower, bringing them closer. This is breezily cinematized by scenes of dabba packing, delivery, and suburban train travel amidst Janoba songs by the home-returning dabbawalas.
Such a plot about ordinary lives, filmed with good acting, smart shoots and editing becomes an attractive film festival product. So it has won several accolades in the Europe and US.
Initially the widower shies away from showing up before the yearning housewife but in the end, presumably prompted by his good natured assistant, he is seen trying to reach her.
The film is one-sided in that it focuses on the lonely widower and fails to probe the housewife's life. We are shown that her husband is curt, his stomach hurt (because of the cauliflower from the wrong lunch box), and he may be having an affair. But the film maker drops him after just two exchanges between the couple. Also there is no footage for the little girl, who seems condemned to a lonelier existence.
The dabba note exchanges, far from creating any awareness, alienate the wife further. The last blow is delivered by her mother confessing, on the occasion of the father's demise due to cancer, that she was never happy in her married life! This settles the issue for the young wife who goes in search of the widower and not finding him, decides to go and settle in Bhutan, where we are told, the living is cheap!
The film unwittingly proves the cliché about the way to a male's heart thru his stomach; though it's the wrong stomach, it belongs to a 'right' heart. But the widower shows no interest in the woes of the woman. It's the grub, his own needs that matter. If only the actual husband is made to eat the horrible hotel food for such a long while, he too may mature as a ripe, lonely longing male.
Yet I would any day watch a film like the Lunch Box than a Bollywood.