A father screwed all over First I want to say that I liked the movie, especially Nicolas Cage and the way he plays characters that are not at peace with themselves. I liked his self-reflective voice-overs (as I also liked it in "Lord of War"). Michael Caine was certainly impressive.
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This review focuses on one aspect of the movie, and you probably should have seen the movie before you read it. If you want to avoid spoilers, please stop reading now!
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This review focuses on how unfairly divorced husbands and fathers are treated, in this movie, and probably in society in general.
The divorce between David (Nicolas Cage) and Noreen (Hope Davis) seems to have been Noreen's idea. We see through most of the movie David acting as a jerk, a man frequently losing his temper, someone who is utterly shallow in his profession: a loser. His wife Noreen, however, is shown as usually well-composed, always reasonable, and rather good looking. She certainly deserves better! At one time, Noreen explains to David why their sex life had been so unsatisfactory, namely because she did not like his body (and, in order to make it more hurtful for him, she enumerates all his body parts she did not like). I, the viewer, was at first tempted to agree that she had a reasonable point. But did she?
Why, if Noreen hated David's body so much, did she marry him in the first place? Did he get a new body since then? And it certainly did not look as if he had acquired all of his jerky character traits only recently; very likely he had had at least a core of them all the time. Furthermore, she is probably co-responsible for some of his behaviors and traits: in the few scenes from his married life we see how she tends to subtly humiliate him, e.g., when she tells him not to forget the tartar sauce. I think if my wife spoke to me in such a way I would refuse to go out at all; but if I went, I would certainly forget the tartar sauce just out of spite. Another problem is that the movie focuses on David's difficulties being an effective father; indeed, he is rather clumsy. Never once does the movie explicitly point out the deficiencies of Noreen, who has a greater responsibility for the children's current problems as the children live with her. But not once do we see her do an effective parental intervention; she seems only to complain to him that he does not do it right.
This movie does not once suggest that this father and husband deserves (and has deserved all along) his (ex-)wife's emotional support. This movie does not ask if it is fair that his wife, despite being contemptuous of him and the superficial way he earns his money, receives a considerable amount of his income. The movie takes it as a matter of course that his ex-wife has kept the comfortable house and the children, while he is forced to move to that isolating and emotionally cold apartment. When he resents his ex-wife's new boyfriend, who very likely sleeps in the bed that he still pays for, he is just depicted as vengeful and narrow-minded.
And is his job as a weatherman really so easy? It looks easy and it is well remunerated, but it certainly takes a lot of hypocrisy to do it. The movie shows that this hypocrisy does come with a hefty price. Neither the movie nor his wife seem to give him any credit for this at all.
In all this, this movie probably just reflects current social judgment. And, as far as movies go, that's fine with me: I do not ask of movies to fight for "the good cause." I just want them to tell a story well, and this movie does that. But, just as society, this movie is merciless with a man who, by whatever criteria, turns out to be a social loser, and it does not bother very much to investigate his side of the story. In that, it seems, this movie is just as unfair as the society and the times that produced it.