Powerful and passionate This was a mesmerising yet heart wrenching film to watch. Ronit goes home to London, from New York to her orthodox Jewish roots to mourn the death of her father. Powerful performances from the three lead actors, especially Rachel Weisz and Rachel McAdams, had me totally absorbed from the outset. I ached for their wasted years. Ronit; excommunicated from her home and family, now a successful photographer, warring with her determination to live her life her as she chooses yet burdened with a sense of loss, and Esti, devoting her life to the Jewish orthodox faith, married to their childhood friend Dovid, yet suffocated by years of a suppressed sense of self and longing.
Spellbound, I found myself holding my breath at the powerful electricity between the two female leads, 'masked' behind deadened facial expressions yet palpable in the fleeting glances, the long, lingering stares and then the slightest of touches shared between them. I fell in love with the two characters: Esti for her staunch commitment and vulnerability and Ronit for her strength of character.
When Ronit goes to her dead father's house, accompanied by Esti, in the loaded silences, I found myself willing them to give in to each other and breathless at Esti's first tentative kiss. Later, the anticipation in their exchanged glances on the tube and as they walked through the city, had me longing too.
The love scene can be summed up in one word: beautiful. No gratuitous sex or nudity here and definitely not your typical 'male oriented movie-sex'. Instead, probably one of the most touching, loving, passionate and totally erotic love scenes ever. It was not about two women having sex, it was two people in love being true to themselves and each other and a necessary and pivotal moment in the film. Esti's orgasm signifies release from years of repression and a key turning point for her - and for me when I realised that it is actually Esti and Dovid who are the characters with the greatest strength.
I absolutely loved this film, adored it ...and if it wasn't for the 'in your face' song choice of 'Lovesong' by the Cure, when Ronit puts the radio on in her father's house, I would have given this 10/10...but it's still great.