Relax and enjoy yourself Just like with sex, you can enjoy this movie if you don't over-analyze it and don't make it to be more than there is to it. It's a fun brain candy, not a Kafkian masterpiece, and one has to be really full of oneself to expect more than that. The most important lesson there - women, wrapped up in our sense of righteousness and victimhood, don't listen to what men are saying, frequently ignoring a clear message of distress, and that was a realization that the two lead characters, Miranda and Carrie, had to develop. And they did. Samantha, true to her character, remains loyal to herself and refuses to become secondary to any male, while most people would expect her to be grateful to have any man at the age of 50. Charlote is the cute comic relief, nothing more, really.
Kudos to writers for being loyal to the show fans, unapologetically honest, and sometimes crass, and for not forgetting to add on some of that fabulous Park Avenue/Vogue magazine fluff.
I managed to get together 10 married working moms and we all had a blast. Some of it was completely realistic, some dreamy, and that's the combination you want on a hot summer night when hubbies stayed home to babysit. Better that Hulks and Strangers and all that violent crap.