Sanaa's beauty and grace is the most memorable feature of this film. If you are looking for a deep, meaningful take-a-way, then go see something "else", not "Something New". As a black woman, I saw this film with a white male. Although we saw ourselves in several of the scenes, the script was lacking in richness, and depth. I didn't come away feeling as though the message was clear that dating across racial lines could be a wonderful and exciting experience. It seemed filled with stress and superficial experiences. The stereotypical depictions of whites loving dogs and camping and hiking and and blacks being mostly concerned about their physical appearance, wearing weaves, and bumping and grinding was a disappointment. It said to me that black women are superficial, contrary to whites who appreciate nature, animals and good fresh air and exercise.
To me, a real connection is when you meet up with someone whom you don't have to adjust to,or adjust for. I don't recall him having to make many adjustments - but she had to, to fit in with him.
The movie was cute, because Sanaa is. She's adorable and likable and she has great acting range. Unfortunately, the script was weak and needed a bit of substance. It needed to show her growth, introspection and progression.
Movies like "My Best Friends Wedding", or "You've Got Mail", are all comedies too,and while neither of them take on any significant social issue, you do come away thinking AND smiling....not just smiling.
The chemistry between her mom and dad was non-existent, and where were Brian's friends? Let's talk about what his friends and family would think, say or do.
The movie was focused too much on a preoccupation with sex, rather than a soulful connection. That's the key, a soulful connection. If that sort of connection is a factor, then the sex will be too, and good sex it will be!
Having said all of that, I do recognize that the movie was a comedy and while it should not be expected to make strong social statements, it was a missed opportunity to do just that. The issue is not "dating a white guy is good (or better than dating a black man)". The issue is, if the RIGHT guy just happens to be white, then don't let his being white prevent you from pursuing the relationship!
By the way, Blair Underwood is a skilled and under-used actor. I was glad to see him. Alfre Woodard does NOT make a good "snooty" mom. Interesting that this is the second time she has been paired up with Sanaa. She was Sanaa's "snooty" mother in Love and Basketball, too. And might I mention as well that Alfree just happens to be married to a white guy? Imagine that! This comment is dedicated to: ML & MBFITWWW, who just happens to be, white.
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