The Ultimatum: Queer Love season 1 featured several messy moments, but nothing was handled as poorly as Mildred Woody attending the reunion without repercussions after assaulting her ex Tiff Der. Tiff and Mildred appeared on the show after Mildred issued Tiff a marriage ultimatum. While Tiff grew over the season and proposed in the finale, Mildred showed a shocking lack of growth and a violent streak that should have prevented her from attending the reunion.

Mildred and Tiff ended up swapping partners on The Ultimatum: Queer Love season 1 with original couple Sam Mark and Aussie Chau. Mildred paired up with Aussie while Tiff and Sam moved in together. Tiff and Sam became close friends and explored how to communicate healthily, with Sam helping Tiff to learn proper communication. However, things soured quickly with Mildred and Aussie, causing Aussie to move out early due to Mildred's aggression. Tiff and Mildred split by...