Provisional rating is a 10.../EDIT: I'm giving an 8 because the ending was so disappointing... The OST is absolutely a 10! I am rating this drama a 9 now, before completion, because I want to share my thoughts... So, my rating is provisional, in case something completely bizarre occurs...
EDIT: (Something completely bizarre has occurred...)
First, I'd like to say that this show is incredibly well done! I give huge props to the director, the writer, and all of the actors, who are doing absolutely stellar work here! This feels so real! Na-bi's annoying indecisiveness...her insecurities...getting pulled back in, multiple times, when she knows better...so real... Jae-eon's smooth game of push and pull, toying with her feelings, then pulling her back with some " thoughtful" gifts or gestures... This is Toxic Relationship 101, done to perfection! Based on personal experience, I feel compelled to recognize the absolute clarity in this work of art... I have not read the webtoon, and do not know the ending, but I hope they continue to do this story justice, and do not feel compelled to re-write their planned ending based on public clamoring... Please trust your work, it's very good...
EDIT: (it *was* very good...for the first 9 episodes... now I really wanna know how the webtoon ended... Unfortunate that there was only clarity up until the murky ending... Toxic relationships like this should no longer be portrayed as romantic... And watching/hearing that he fell for her as she was standing in front of that embarrassing sculpture her horrible first boyfriend put her name on just totally creeped me out...😱)
I am hoping that Na-bi and Jae-eon do not end up together (as much as I love Song Kang's portrayal of this character), because, whether he is broken, or just a jerk, the idea that "the right woman" can "fix" a man like this is a disservice to young women who will be watching, and also to the character of Na-bi... It is not her job to make him whole. He needs to get healthy before he tries to have a relationship with anyone... I guess they could do a time-jump, but they would need to have plenty of time to make it clear that he had gotten therapy and dealt with his issues...
EDIT: (Well, unfortunately there was no time-jump, but they didn't even bother to have Na-bi try to "fix" him, she just accepted him, warts and all...knowing very well that she will be hurt again... Why, Na-bi, whyyyy?!? Not that I'm saying she should have tried to fix him, she should have shook him off like a hairy spider!).
I also want to say, the pure devotion of the childhood friend, Do-hyeok, is being played to perfection by Chae Jong-hyeop... I appreciate how, even when he feels hurt or jealous, he never weaponizes his feelings against Na-bi... Can we hope that he remains true to his character to the end? This is what real love for someone looks like...
EDIT: (IMPORTANT OBSERVATION: Chae Jong-hyeop is now the guy we want to see get the girl next time (Casting directors, please take note)... and not by playing a character that is a jerk... don't misunderstand me, I *do* love bad boys...but bad boys that reform themselves because they are motivated to become better people, or bad boys that were only ever "bad" on the surface, and were really squishy soft on the inside all along (Choi Young-do from The Heirs, Han Seo-jun from True Beauty)...Not a self-centered character like Jae-eon, who we really didn't get to see make any positive changes, or even a commitment to change...freeing the butterflies was not it... And did everyone develop amnesia about him flirting with the lady at the bar and taking her to "see the butterflies" while Na-bi was out of town?!? And then he had the nerve to tell Na-bi he missed her! Not that night, he didn't...)
Additionally, I've read that the part of Kim Mingui is being reduced/edited out because he (supposedly) did something that wasn't acceptable, which, while not a nice thing to do, is an error in judgement, not a crime... He is, what, 26? Plenty of people don't know what they want (or how to go about getting it) when they are that age... Could he have found a better way to handle things? Probably... So, fine...call him a bad boy, and don't date him until he gets his head on straight... But, mess with his work? Not cool...no need for that...
EDIT: (I was very pleased to see that Kim Mingui was not heavily edited out, although we cannot know how much greater his part may have been minus the controversy... I was happy that time was given to resolve the relationship between his character, Nam Gyu-hyun, and Bit-na (the characters were so great together, as were the actors! Great chemistry!)... I could have happily had much more of them together onscreen, but hopefully we will see them both again very soon)
Also, in my final edit, I would like to give major props for the LGBTQ+ romance, which was very beautifully done by Lee Ho-jung and Yoon Seo-ah... every loving relationship in this series was heartwarming, except for the one between Na-bi and Jae-eon... Disappointing they didn't finish that appropriately...
While the ending may have been truthful, it is not a truth that serves well... "young woman refuses to give up toxic guy, even though she knows he will only hurt her again"... I get that this turmoil might appeal to very young women who don't know they deserve more, but couldn't we have had instead, "young woman with potential decides to give up toxic relationship to focus on herself and her art"...? Or, "young woman realizes she is in a toxic relationship and ends it to be with her first love, who truly understands and cares for her"...? My only hope for how this ended is that there is a Season 2 in the works... The series overall was very well done, I'm just dismayed by the message... I get that young women will make bad choices and get hurt, but let's let them know there's a brighter future that can be had...
Final thoughts... This was an extremely well-crafted (for the most part) series, with absolutely phenomenal acting... I would have to say, it seems like a success in that it created two very polarized camps (🦋 vs 🥔) which generated a lot of buzz... I read that the ratings in S Korea were not that high, but I don't think ratings tell the whole story anymore... I'd say this is a WIN for Netflix...
If only the ending had made more sense this could have been a 10 for me...