Honest, but flawed Tanuj Bhramar's new film, Dear Dad, has been a bit of a revelation for me. As I walked into a packed theater over the weekend, I noticed in line, ahead of me, walking to their seats, women with odhnis around their heads, children at their hips, elderly couples, and hipster young things with their flipflops and DH Lawrence haircuts. What an odd bunch of movie goers, and yet, how exciting to see India transform in front of my very eyes; to see this diverse population come to watch a film about a father coming out to his teenage son! Bravo, Tanuj Bhramar for making this happen.
Now, onto the film itself. The film revolves around a road trip, a father, who has confronted his wife with the fact that he is gay, takes his teenage son his boarding school in Mussoorie. During this trip, Nithin (the father, played by a more than capable, and intense as always Arvind Swamy, of Bombay and Roja fame), confesses his homosexuality to his father. In an unabashed moment, a few feet away, fuming like a volcano, his son (Shivam, played by Himanshu Sharma), has happened to overhear the entire conversation.
From here on out, much like a teen angst movie, we are confronted with endless scenes of an almost teary eyed father and a furious son trying to come to terms with the fact that they have been presented with a rather weak script. What could have made for an exceptional premise, is completely spoiled by ridiculous subplots, involving a reality TV star, and an oddly androgynous panacea delivering guruji.
Shivam's only concern, is a genuine one. Like most teenagers, he cares only about himself. He is not angry with his father for being gay, he only cares that the life he loved and cherished will now be destroyed, due to his father's selfish nature.
The ending of the film has a rather interesting twist. Save that, the rest of the film rings hollow. Some scenes look stagy and unreal. The dialogue, while sometimes shining in it's brilliance, is yet at other occasions, mired in the mundane, and downright silly.
There are several honorable mentions in this film.
Firstly, Aravind Swamy. It is rare to see a man with such presence on screen, such command over the art of underplaying a complex character, with such ease. He is a joy to watch, and a sight to behold. Truly, an excellent comeback for an actor who deserves this and much more. Kudos, as well, for taking on such a controversial role; for without his presence, this film would never have made it to the multiplex near me.
Secondly, the man playing the role of the reality TV star. I am not sure of what his name is, and who he is, but an excellent performance in a small role.
Third, the background score and the music. While I would be the very first to agree that the background score is very much "inspired", from what seems to me to be the works of Thomas Newman, Jan AP Kaczmarek, and even Gustavo Santaolalla, I think it is an excellent effort. The music does really fuse with the movie quite well, except for the percussive comedy piece (during the Guruji scene), which was downright silly and absurd.
The only song in the film is a throwback to the likes of David Karsten Daniels and Alexi Murdoch, a nice, gentle, tugs-at-the- strings-of-your-heart kind of song.
Overall, A for effort, and I give this film 8 out of 10, for being the brave little cub that it is, standing in the face of adversity, it's head held high!