As someone correctly said grief is love unexpressed. It should be illegal for movies to be this poetic, they want you to die of the heartache. The poets not only amplify love with ther words but also pain. Rarely we see someone to excel both in personal life and in proffesional life. Even though he loved every part of it but when he finally settled down he had all this unexpressed love from these years that tore him and was finding vents to get it out of him. His wife correctly said this day will last 'eternity and a day' and it did. The emotions expressed by the little boy were great. I would kill for the letter her wife had written for him. What really matters at the end. We sacrifice everything for our passion and lose the people which meant the most to us and at the end it comes back to the memories and living with them.