This show started great but is impossible to sit through now with the constant whining and complaining from Daniele. Yes, I'm sure it's difficult but you signed on to have children and punishing them and your husband daily is destroying the family life you could be having. Ask yourself how your behavior is bringing the peace and joy you so want. This life is the result of your choices so learn how to handle it with some positivity for everyone's sake. If you need to leave the clothes in a pile in the closet, do it. Check the OCD and the negativity. Pick your battles and learn to appreciate how really blessed you are.